Oh how I remember that! I remember those same types of girls when I went to school, the cheerleaders, class president, drama star, etc.... The teachers thought they were perfect and just loved them and they got much more attention than some of the rest of us....you know what the sad part is? They all turned out to have the worst lives.....problem after problem when they went to college and on into their adult life.... Don't fret, they will get thiers.... Even tho' I didn't get the attention then, I got it in my adult life. I've had a very successful career and I have a great family. The girls like you are describing get used to having everything given to them that when they get out on their own in life they continue to think everything will come just as easy, but it doesn't. You however, will be much more prepared and will eventually out perform them in the long run! Just hang in there, your time WILL come!!!
2006-11-15 12:04:47
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answered by favrd1 4
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Get on with your life. Focus on you and what you have and not what others have. What specifically did these girls actually take from you? Did you run for class president? Are they affecting your grades by being popular? I was an outcast, by choice, in high school, I hated the "popular" kids. Looking back, what a waste of time. Now when I run into people from high school, we are all pretty much cool. We are young parents and career minded people just trying to live our lives. Find something you are good at and love and make that a priority. These girls are not thinking about making your life miserable unless you are pushing the issue. Sometimes it's easier to blame others for our shortcomings, real or imagined. You sound very nice, ignore them. Study. Success is the best revenge.
2006-11-15 12:10:16
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answered by ape2016 5
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i had a similar situation like this when i was in high school, except it was my twin brother who everyone liked and gave everything to. trust me you can't do anything and if you do it'll just seem like you're the bad apple and trying to sabbatoge something that's good. i know i was with my brother 24-7 and we were in every class together-it was an extremely small school. he was always the smart one andthe favorite, even at home he was. but once i got into a separate college it's all in the past...except when i go home though, he's still the favorite. you'll never be able to do anything about the girls. and it'll make you and your 2 friends look bad to the teachers anyway. sorry.
2006-11-15 12:05:15
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answered by collgegrl11 4
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We are all selfish... but you know, I don't think you can do anything that will change the view that people have of them. Perhaps pray about it... When you think about it, its a good thing that people love them.. Maybe its just a jealousy that you want to be those girls... It sure sounds like it.. But their views will probably stay the same for a while.. Eventually perhaps others views will change on them.. but I wouldn't waste your time trying to be like them or please them or whatever your motives are.. Just have fun at school.. while you can.. with your friends.. because it all goes fast...
2006-11-15 12:04:42
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answered by Mickey 2
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im sorry to say sweetie that there isnt anything you can do about it. the teachers have their choices and so do your piers. all you can do is be the best you can be, even if it doesnt measure up to what those girls are. i use to be one of those girls that ALL the teachers like and people didnt like me. i was like the best student and now, i choose not to be. you just act yourself, and try not to let it get to you. sometimes it can be really hard, but i bet they might wish sometimes that they were like other people, like you. so dont worry, and be yourself! now i am friends with everyone!
2006-11-15 12:05:19
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answered by JennyJen91 2
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one of lifes lessons - some people just have all the luck. no way around it, no way to fight it, its just how it is. and sometimes it really sucks. try not to let it get to you (it will though) and just live your own life. some day, you might get to be that person. until then, plot to overthrow the world and make them your foot washers.
2006-11-15 12:02:54
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answered by savgbst 3
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well get good grades and get pretty.oh flirt with there boyfriends
2006-11-15 12:03:44
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answered by mallchik 1
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if they are guy teachers just spread rumors that the girls had sex with him, it always works
2006-11-15 12:01:14
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answered by Kate 3
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