I been with my husband for 4yrs and I hate having sex with him. I want to know what can I do to even want to have sex with him. I know that I want to have sex because I sometime want it so bad but when I have sex with him its the worst sex and I don't even care if we don't have it again. I want to know what I can do to try to make it better before someone make it better for me, don't get me wrong I love my husband but I hate his sex.
2006-11-15 11:57:20 · 11 answers · asked by pecan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to start trying toys and different things... go to the store and buy some fun things... open your mind... have fun
2006-11-15 12:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should first sit down and talk about it with your husband. After all communication is always the key. Maybe if you tell him what you'd like him to do when "performing" then the sex will be better. If he doesn't know what you like and don't like then how can he make a good sexual partner?
2006-11-19 17:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by candyflesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him. He can't please you if he doesn't know what you want. Open communication is very important in any relationship. Tell him what really turns you on and find out what really does it for him, share fantasies. Have fun.
Good Luck
2006-11-15 20:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him.Thats part of marriage.If you dont want your marriage to end or to be resentful to your husband you should talk to him.You tell him what you want he may even find it a turn on.And you may too.It works.Try it.
2006-11-15 20:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think that somebody cares about this? It's your problem. Maybe you should stop asking these questions and begin to improve yourself. By the way, have you talk to him about this? If you have not, do not do it...It's pathetic.
2006-11-15 20:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
tell him what you want and when he does it moan like crazy then before long you will have him trained, men are like dogs you can train them
2006-11-16 01:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe both of you need to experience tossing each others salads. lol lol lol
2006-11-15 20:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach him your way . You'll get better results.
2006-11-15 20:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not know any better--so try roleplaying, porn, toys etc. Anything as this will get worse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-15 20:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dirty talk! Maybe if you tell him where you want it, how you want it, specifics...maybe he'll please you more (he'll probably really like it too!)
2006-11-15 20:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋