2006-11-15 11:56:06 · 10 answers · asked by far_away312 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok first tlk to her and if she doesnt listen then go tlk to a adult that u trusted and they can go tlk to ur friend
2006-11-15 12:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible thing to discover, an awful situation and a very desparate situation for you friend.
You simply must talk to this person- tell them you love them and that it upsets you to see them unhappy but do it in such a way that they aren't made to feel bad.
Don't mention the cutting unless they do and if they do- confront the issue head on. Encourage professional help and do not judge them, criticise them in any way or make them feel guilty as I said before.
She is in a stage of trying it. Seeing if she can stand the pain enough to do it for real.
This is a critical time, there is something in his/her life that is telling them that it simply isn't worth living anymore and that death is acutally better than life.
I don't know the situation but I'm tipping that you aren't the cause and you are not responsible for them trying to hurt themselves.
You are however a very caring and concerned friend and I hope everything works out well for both of you.
(Bare in mind that the above is my own thoughts and not in anyway professional advice.)
The Iceman.
2006-11-15 21:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem except my friend is a guy. What I did was I talked to my school counselor and they called his counselor and they talked to him and helped him get through it and I supported him through the whole thing. You need to ask her why she cuts herself and try and tell her that if she cuts herself too much she can die and obviously she can't come back. Just be there for her and let her know you really care about her and that you don't want anything bad to happen to her.
2006-11-15 20:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by pointelove07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. I good friend can stop anything. Find out what's going on and help her get through it. She is probley going through a really rough time right now. Helping her is the only thing you can do.
2006-11-15 20:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is beyond your means to help directly.I suggest you seek aid from a professional
2006-11-15 20:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mathieu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to my cuz. If i were you i would just act like my normal self. BUT if nobody knows... tell someone ASAP
2006-11-15 20:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Marshmellow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first... dont judge her, she needs you now and it will make her feel betrayed if you judge it. Talk to her and ask her why. Encourage her to get help and get her information about how she can deal with it.
2006-11-15 19:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by C J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and be a good friend and talk to a trusted adult someone you both trust
2006-11-15 19:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by dixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree w/ dixie, u really need to tell someone!
2006-11-15 19:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by mysteryonetwothree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop it, it's not good for her...
2006-11-15 19:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋