Is it wrong for a person to have a secrect relationship with someone and get with someone else for a cover up, such as a guy leaving another guy to get with a girl for a cover up even though they are not boyfriends, just keeping the relationship secret away from society, even though society caught on to the relationship and now that guy got with a girl for a cover up leaving the other guy heart broken
2006-11-15 11:54:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes it means youre a liar
2006-11-15 13:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that was hard to read! because of the lack of punctuation and all, I mean. As for you question, you seem to be asking 2 questions: is it wrong and is it selfish? I would say the first is a judgement call and the second if yes, it is selfish. But sometimes you have to be. I know I would have to know more about your situation to give a better answer. But my gut instinct on the 'is it wrong?' is yeah, that's wrong. You shouldn't need a 'beard' or a cover. But then I don't know the whole story (i.e. you live in a very homophobic place where if you don't have a 'girl' you'll be Matthew Sheparded).
2006-11-15 20:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its wrong
obviously the only thing accomplished was a broken heart.
if u cared about him, u should just be with him, not care what other ppl think. ur okay with loving him, so it doesnt matter if they're okay with it or not.
2006-11-15 19:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong and selfish not to want to be out. if it is seen in society that it is happening then it is time to deal with it.
2006-11-15 21:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋