i need tips on making my husband go crazy, madly more in love w/ me. Girls, guys if your married give me some tips please. i just think that my relationship is becoming a routine.i'm 25 and he is 29 and been married for 7 years. and sometimes i feel that he forgot how wonderful he was.
2006-11-15 11:30:54 · 9 answers · asked by melissa p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try leaving love notes in his lunch box or on a mirror for him to see. Some places on the web have love notes and coupons you can print out. Fix his favorite meals. Plan a special night out to do something he likes whether you like it or not. But at the same time if your married can you be more in love than that.
2006-11-15 11:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how wonderful you think he is. Start doing the little things that you used to do before you got married. The long passionate kisses sexual advances, etc..... drive him crazy so all he will think about is coming home to you. But mainly give him lots of attention and affection and tell him how you feel about him. Bring up some things he does that makes you think so much of him.
2006-11-15 11:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by ladybug40353 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure that you haven't forgotten how special you are? You need reassurance too. i found silly little things tend to annoy me but a woman who will back me to the hilt in any endeavor is very rare indeed. if you mean sexually then ask a few of his male friends if he has ever mentioned any particular scenario that you could re-create for him. don't forget yourself in all this is all i ask. The sight sounds and knowledge of a woman enjoying herself whilst she is with me, is what does it for me but may not for him. also remember some games may help a marriage whilst the same game destroys another, be careful
2006-11-15 11:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Cff 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Change it up. Take a trip alone. Do something together that is completely out of the ordinary. Any time we need a boost I suggest something completely unexpected and BAM..there's that spark again :)
2006-11-15 11:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
At a very deep level, a man's self esteem comes from two places. Sex, representing success in the struggle for procreation, and career, representing the success in the struggle for survival. To feel confident in himself, a man needs to feel confident in his ability to arouse and satisfy physical desire in you; and to provide security for himself and his family. The more he sees himself as the great lover and mighty hunter (provider), the better he feels about himself and the situation he's in.
A woman who finds her man undesireable; who sees sex as an inconvenience or a maritial duty, degrades his self esteem. A wife who pressures him for more money, more things, more, more more... also degrades his self esteem. He will tend to grow distant from such a woman; defending his self-image from the one who he perceives (correctly) to be attacking it.
A woman who finds her man desireable; who sees sex as a shared joy she looks forward to, even instigates, increases his self esteem. A woman who praises his efforts as a provider, encourages his efforts in his career, and lets him know his success as a provider also boosts his self esteem. He will draw closer to such a woman because rather than a threat, she is a boost to his self image.
Men are locked in a constant struggle for dominance. It's something women really can't understand. We see every other man as a potential rival; even our "friends". Make him feel like a success as a man, and he will feel better about himself whenever he's with you, or thinks of you. He'll draw closer to you, without even knowing why, because it feels good when he does.
You'd be surprised how he responds....
2006-11-15 11:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do a web search for some wild ideas. one night I rented a honeymoon suite at a local motel and we had a wild night of love and just talking and things have been great since
2006-11-15 11:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date him. Seriously, date nights are very important. Mix them up. Dancing, hiking, poker, whatever.
Great job on identifying a problem and seeking a solution!
2006-11-15 11:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You married too young... Have you done anything to improve your life? Go to College...study something...Improve yourself!!!!
2006-11-15 11:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get the new Kama Sutra book and tell him you'd like to read it together!
2006-11-15 11:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by karen h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋