i have this friend + she has been a horrible friend to me since i first met her. she's better now. but whenever i make a new friend, she usually becomes better friends with them quicker than i do. + i'm an extremly jealous person so i get jealous. i just made this new friend + i wanted to be better friends with her + my "bad" friend, ashley meets her + now they're better friends than her + i. (sorry if i keep saying "better") but i never show that i'm jealous so i keep to myself + then it ends up bugging me till i snap. how can i stop being so jealous ?
2006-11-15 10:59:56 · 14 answers · asked by yourprettyhot123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first you are not jealous, you are insecure, so you need to work on your self esteem and believe in your self. also the other thing is find new friends and forget Ashley, she is not helping you at all
2006-11-15 11:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you jealous of the girl or the actuality that your "guy" is speaking to a lady? Take a classification and discover out approximately your self! you will no longer cease being jealous till you recognize why you're this way. some women folk are jealous because of the fact while they have been youthful their dad cheated on their mom and that they are nevertheless coping with it. For others it may be a actual physiological difficulty ie stockers or abusers. yet, if his physique language is telling you that there is a few thing between him and this lady, then you could watch this lady.
2016-12-17 10:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably not even a good friend any ways if she going to treated you that way any ways. And you know what if you keep letting treat you that way she's goiing get other people to treated you that and every body going to gain up on you. whos know maybe even your new friend. from personalily experience dont let get to you. I do the same thing all the time.
Well good luck on you not be jealous and just think about what I said.
2006-11-15 12:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by countrygal forever and always! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what you are saying when you say your are jelalous? Your are saying I DON"T FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF, I AM NOT WORTHY TO HAVE A GOOD FRIEND, I AM NOT LOVED BY ANYBODY. So stop saying I am jealous, say instead I am not feeling good about myself, then ask yourself why? This is a inside job, pay attention to what your are thinking and saying about yourself. I have a suggestion, say this out loud everyday, as many time a day as you can. I AM WHOLE, AND PERFECT, STRONG, POWERFUL, LOVING, HARMONIOUS AND HAPPY. EXPECT GOOD THINGS TO HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE. MAY YOU BE WELL AND HAPPY
2006-11-15 11:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by bonnie f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By realizing that she is not a possession but a friend, free to do as she chooses. Perhaps Ashley isn't that good of a friend to begin with
2006-11-15 11:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way u can stop being jealous is get you a new friend and maybe she or he might jealous now if u see your boy freind with another ugly ***** then be if he is datin a other girl and i am 9 years old yes i will be jealous u can be my friend
2006-11-15 11:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anarri H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...... I'm sorry but it seems to me that she cant approach the people so she waits until you become friends with them. then she has a better chance to make them her friends. (basically saying "she makes friends trow you" in a way)
2006-11-15 11:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Female 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop getting in the middle of my friends that i meet or tell to get the **** away from me and out of my new friends life.
2006-11-15 11:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to control your feelings and rise your self-esteem. Have confidence in yourself.
2006-11-15 11:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try and be close to the new friends
2006-11-15 11:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋