2006-11-15 10:53:54 · 15 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Beat his a.s.s.
Make him hurt as much as he made YOU hurt.
2006-11-15 10:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a complex question. Each case has to be judged individually. Some people cheat for good reason, especially if you are cheating on him. If you are newlyweds i would probably seek an annulment. If you have been married a long time and think you can forgive, maybe marriage counseling might be a solution. But divorce could be the answer; or an open relationship. There is a lot to be decided. How do you want to live? And with whom. I recently let my ten year marriage go, and it was because my husband abandoned me. I have thought about possible reconciliation, but it will not work. I want my freedom now more than ever, and I do not know if I will ever recover from the betrayal?
May peace be with you and good luck! Take your time!
2006-11-15 11:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when we first enter into a marriage/bf relationship there is no intention of cheating. as time goes by, it is not so rare that the other partner may put their desires or lustful ways before the value of their relationship. Someone who cheats has other desires that are far from commitment. It is true that we all make mistakes. However cheating is not a mistake, it is a choice that we make. We choose to be faithful or not to be. We have full control over our actions. When we value our relationship we do not put ourselves sticky situation. When there are no consequences to our actions we are more likely to repeat them. By staying with someone who cheats we are saying it is okay. Think about when you where younger growing up. when you did something you where not suppose to do, such as getting home late, cutting, sneaking around. If your parents got mad but there was little or no punishment you were likely to repeat it. If you paid a big price for your actions, you were less likely to repeat.
It is hard to leave a relationship when there are deep feelings involved. However, would you want to live your whole life with doubt....with someone you can't trust....with someone who doesn't value you or your relationship.....someone selfish.....
2006-11-15 11:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sonny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him cause how can you be with someone you can't trust its possible but its alot of WORK and if there is no trust in the relationship then there is no relationship you know cause a relationship is based on each others feelings and trust and trust is the main one sorry you goin though this but you need to let him go and find the right guy dont waste your time with him you might let the right guy past you by so think about that and make your choice.
2006-11-15 14:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the video by Carrie Underwood? That would be a good way to get him, but he would probably press charges....... Sew all his pants legs together. Dye all his underwear hot pink. Put tuna fish in his carburetor. Poor sugar in his gas tank. Put something foul-tasting in his beverages (not poison, just foul-tasting). just pay him back without sinking to his level.............THEN SUE HIM FOR DIVORCE FOR ADULTERY!!!!!!
2006-11-15 10:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he cheated on you&you only want to hear the truth even if it hurts your feelings. ONLY THE TRUTH not something you want to hear(made up lie).ask him how are you suppose to trust him again?????????
make him come clean about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if you have NO trust between the both of you then you really don't have a serious relationship
relationships are built on trust
2006-11-15 11:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by candace0115 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to confess the truth and leave him in the history book. It's time to find a new guy,
2006-11-15 10:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think a woman should leave him or ask him y he done it if she trust him then believe he wont do it again
2006-11-15 10:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by mandapandapoohbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE, YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF, AND IF YOU STAY IT WILL BRING YOU DOWN, THEY ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA , FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL ONLY THINK OF YOU AND WHO WILL NOT THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE
2006-11-15 11:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by COLA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-11-15 10:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by melody g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋