Help please respond so confused?

Question

I am so confused on my sexuality, I think I am straight but I get turned on and sometimes think of women someone please help me.

Answer 1

Well to be quite honest, you could be bi. I personally do not see anything wrong with that, and quite frankly many women are bi. I am not sure of the psychology behind, it but it is definitely more accepted than men w/other men. I would not freak out if I were you, take things as they come and you will know in time. After all it may just be that the idea is attractive to you, but if the opportunity to be with a woman arose you may find yourself not wanting to pursue it.

Answer 2

You don't say how old you are and that's a factor. If you are a teenager then it's very very natural that you would be confused and not sure about your sexuality. That's a tough time and a time of discovery.
If you are older and still having these thoughts it could just be curiousity (bi-curious), you culd be thinking of women for other reasons (example: hero worship), or yes, you could be bisexual.
Nothing wrong with any of that.
If you are young, just wait and time will tell you what you need to know. If you are older, then you need to do some thinking and some figuring things out (what are your 'female' triggers? Are you simply curious? Would you ever actually want to have sex with a woman? etc.).

Answer 3

We are designed to crave relationships and to experience sexual pleasure. When we discover something pleasurable, we sometimes gravitate to that to make ourselves feel better when we're hurt. It might not be right, but it feels better than the pain. Like doing drugs, not a good choice, but some people would rather do drugs than deal with whatever hurt they have. If you've found pleasure in a lesbian relationship, it's because you are designed for sex and for being with someone. However, just like doing drugs, getting involved in the wrong thing b/c it feels good doesn't make it OK. Sex is a sacred act to be kept within the boundaries of marriage. You'll keep your sanity that way. Too much of a good thing is not a good thing. Too much candy will make you sick, ya know. I really think you are feeling confused b/c being lesbian or bi is not how you were created. If I were you, I would think about whether you've been hurt by a guy and fear of a heterosexual relationship is making you seek pleasure in a bi or les relationship. Think about the drug story...don't do it just to run away from pain. You'll hurt yourself more in the long run.

Answer 4

You could be bi. A lot of women are attracted to both men and women. Just follow your heart and don't worry about labels that much.

Answer 5

calm down and first realize its no big deal if you are not straight. then honestly consider how you feel and what you are attracted to, could turn out to be that your just curious. it not wrong to think women are ayttractive and sexy. its not wrong to want to explore with them either. only you can figure out who you are. just take your time, be honest, and dont apologize for it.

Answer 6

You are talking about FANTASY.
People fantasize about things they would never DO, even though the fantasy turns them on.
For example, some women fantasize about an almost-rape, whereas they wouldn't want that in reality.
What you fantasize about is your OWN business.

Answer 7

She would have to be at least bi-- her previous question was about sucking Dick. So maybe you are bi or just a sex addict... Who knows.


Oh and who said anything about getting pregnant, what an idiot. That guy is, I think he just might be insecure about a woman not needed him...

Answer 8

stuff like this makes me wonder if people can properly identify just what it is that turns them on. pleasure can come in a variety of experiences so i don't believe that taking a few out of context is proof of anything. on the other hand it's kind of hard for a woman to get another pregnant without a man being involved.