This week i've managed to lose my job, get a new girl freind and lose her because her respect lefted when my job did, fall from God, lose my best freind and lost the love of my mom. what should i do?
2006-11-15 10:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes things look bad, but the one thing you can depend on is that things will not remain the same. So when they are bad, they will get better.
Sometimes bad crap happens to really good people. If you caused the loss of your job, as long as you learned from it then the experience will have worth going forward. Get busy finding a new job....the longer you are out of work the harder it will be to find a new job.
Don't worry about the girl....there will be plenty more.
Is your mom angry or disappointed? If so, she still loves you. If she didn't love you she would have no reaction to what goes on in your life. Give her a little time, and show her you can move forward.
Keep answering and asking questions on Yahoo.....there are lots of people to talk to, to get advice from, and to give advice to (help people learn from your mistakes).
2006-11-15 11:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mariska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Im not going to pretend I know the perfect answer but it must be something serious to have happened to have all this happen to you in a week. So with that in mind (Hard to know without knowing the details) But tackle each problem one at a time. You could start with the easy one, forget the girl if she was worth it she would have stuck with you. the rest I think it is a case of talking it all through with your mum and best friend. Be honest, its difficult but has to be done. As forFalling from god doesnt he always forgive, just back on track with your religion if that is what you want. As for the job..........do your very best to find another one. Dont dwell on what you have done (if anything) to cause losing the last one, thats not going to change or help just find the energy and persevere. I hope this helps. I really hope everything improves for you and good luck with your future.
2006-11-15 19:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by kimshelsher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that but many people are going through things like this and worse. Your job you can replace, your girlfriend must of been a gold digger. The people that you lost if you meant respect wise well then _reflect _ on why because there is more then one person you said you lost and if it happens 2 in a row what did you do to hurt their feelings?
2006-11-15 18:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. Do some deep soul searching, and fix the problems from within. Ask for the Lord's help. He will answer.
2006-11-15 18:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by fricatease 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look at all the negative problems that have happened instead look at all the positive things that you have right now, if you think negative on everything you won't be thinking with a clear mind.
2006-11-15 18:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a lot to live for,for everything that you have lost can be replace with something better,your mother maybe be angry with you but you will never love her love and God love you too,make a mends and get yourself together it will be OK...
2006-11-16 13:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Splash some cold water on your face and pick one thing to fix and get to it dude!!!
Action is the answer!!!
Good luck,
A
2006-11-15 18:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear Jack ..try to cheer up maybe tom be better.
2006-11-15 18:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will get better maybe
2006-11-15 18:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by bill h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋