So now I have no clue if I should choose my friend over a boy that is very cool to me or choose him and loose I best friend!
2006-11-15 10:25:06 · 13 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Never let Boys/Girls come between friendships
Does you friend know that you are interested in the same boy she is? Perhaps discuss it with her if she values the friendship as much as you she will probally feel the same as you, and you'll decide niether one of you should persue enjoy having a mutual crush on the same boy.
However does the boy show more interest in either one of you if so the other one should step aside and let the powers of love be.
When I was in highschool I liked this boy Kevin, the funny thing was he was crazy in love with my best friend, We went out and I found out I didnt like him so much after he keep asking me about my friend. I told my friend, however she was madly in love with a guy that didnt know she was a live, I thought he was a good guy still so I convienced her to go out with him. She in turn introduced me to a friend of hers that had been admiring me for a while. We all went out on a double date and I ended up marrying her friend and having four babies and she and the guy I thought I had a crush on & her had more in common and she fell madly in love with him and they stayed together 5 years.
Point is 16 years later we are all still good friends and me and her did not let a boy come between us.
2006-11-15 10:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Never sacrifice your friends for a boy. No matter how dramatic and drastic it seems, boys aren't the center of your life. But you and your best friend aren't sure if the boy likes either of you back, so there isn't much to do but wait. Whenever he picks one, it'd be better than stealing the boy of your best friend's dreams from her. Remember, you friend is probably in the same situation as you are, so try to treat her fairly.
2006-11-15 10:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by KOOKaburra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so stupid how friends can fight over boys if the boy likes u then u go out with him if the boy likes ur friend she goes out with him and if they break up u break up then the other has a chance its that simple
2006-11-15 10:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.....TRUSSSTT MEEEE u DONT wanna do what u would regret!!!....choose ur FREND nd i PROMISE she'll apreciate u and no ur a good frend.....think of it like this....if u were in her shoes what would u do?....im TELLING U NOW....dont do nuttin stupid...boys come and go...but FRENDS....girl they last 4EVER....no matter what they wont turn their backs on u (if they are a TRUE frend)....but BOYS looll....they are UNPREDICTABLE.....u neva no if dey like u 4 u!
besides IMAGINE....if u DID go out with that boy and ur frend STILL liked him...do u know that if ur frend let the boy know...he can EASILY cheat on u WITH HER!!...aint dat a BIATCH!!....and cuz she was angry at u 4 taking him away from her...then she would do it in spite of u...then guess what!!....u lose your frend AND the boy!.....u think it's really worth all that hassle?.....think CAREFULLY about it!....
oh and if u talk to her about it asking her if she's ok with u going out with him....DONT believe her...LOOK DEEEPPP in2 her eyes and see if she's lying (she most likely would IF shes a gd frend)
one last thing..... if u chose ur freind over him then good 4 u....HOWEVER if ur frend goes out with him knowing U like him...then she's not ur tru frend but at least u would KNOW in ur heart u made the rite choice.....
sacrifices my dear...sacrfices!!! dont we ALL hate it when we have 2 choose lool...
GOOD LUCK :)
2006-11-18 08:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur best friend if she doesnt mind that u go out with the guy and if she says no then ask her and if she yells at u or is a jerk then tell her that if shes going to do that then shes not good enough to be ur friend! good luck!
2006-11-15 10:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by milf bitch! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur friend is a true friend she wont mind if u go out with him but ask her if its ok with her but if she likes him alot then u should have respect for that and jus be friends and let her go out with him..........i think friends are more important then guys cuz guys are only there for a while and friends are there for a life time!
2006-11-15 11:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. Look, i had that happen to me. I got sooooooo mad at my best friend. I realized what an idiot i was being. My advice to you is keep your best friend, even if you feel like you wanna kill her. If you like him so much, ask him out before your best friend does. Hope my advice works!
2006-11-15 10:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Marshmellow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them both on Jerry Springer !
2006-11-15 10:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you take him, there goes your friendship. you gotta find someone she dosenot like, because this guy is only gunna last for so long, while a friendship can last for your whole life!
2006-11-15 10:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend about it maybe she wouldn't mind you to goin' out
2006-11-15 10:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by drama queen 06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋