My mates 13yr son was killed today by a car, im only here to stop crying..why do children have to die?

Question

I have never belived in god but I belive in heaven and need someone to tell my why is it children have to die before they have even lived?

Answer 1

There is no logic or reason to this world!
Tragic things happen and always will. Be strong, both for yourself, but more importantly for your friend. They will need all the support you can give them.
When things like this happen, we get through it, it hurts, it's hard, we cry, we shout, we rage, but we get through it.

Your friend's son will live on in the hearts and memories of those who knew and loved him. You will never forget him, or get over his death, but you will come to terms with it, and learn to live with it.

As I said, be strong, and my thoughts are with you. x

Answer 2

In a perfect world we'd all live to a ripe old age. I'm not sure what 'god' has to do with it because I don't really believe in god.
Whatever your beliefs it's a terrible loss for anyone to die before they've even lived and I don't think anyone can answer why it happens. The only thing that anyone can do is help to prevent things like this happening. Campaign for better road safety, harsher penalties for drivers who flout the law etc. It won't bring them back but if your actions prevent another person suffering a loss like this it's worth every ounce of pain you might be feeling right now.

Answer 3

It's a hard world when something like that happen's,I'am sorry for the loss, my 4 month old niece died in her sleep 2 yrs ago now, she wasn't a well girl but we were just very greatful for the time we had with her, its the little things we remember the most, my dad used to look after her sometimes over night to give my sister and partner a break from the night time feeds, he would kip on the sofa with my niece in a moses basket next to him, dad doesn't sleep that well but always remembers that when if he had dropped off to sleep and woken half hour later that she would be lying there and look up at him as if to say well if you have 5 mins then I would like a feed, it wasnt him ignoring her, she just never made a fuss.It's the little things that we have to hold on to, the way people make you laugh, the way kids play together (jordan, my son used to just walk over to her and give her toys), the way they look out for each other...god bless

Answer 4

Hi. I'm so sorry your friend's young son died in such tragic circumstances. Why do children have to die so young? We none of us really know. God is not just a human being though - he cares for us all and sees a much bigger picture than we can ever imagine. We all occasionally 'hurt' our children by doing such things as dabbing their wounds when they fall - so that they scream and cry - but we are trying to make them better and are not really being cruel at all. A little pain is necessary for a better life in the longer term. The pain we suffer makes us more understanding and compassionate.

God is not human but he created a wonderful world and created mankind to rule it over all other animals. It is man that is causing mayhem and man that is killing his fellow man.

God does not let people die ... people die.

Slowly God is righting our world - the evil that is perpetrated will be obliterated and one day (probably not in my lifetime) peace will reign and children will no longer suffer and die young.

God Bless.

x

Answer 5

i lost a close friend when i was 17 in a car accident, then a while ago a 12 year old girl i was close to died in a car accident, i kept asking why god takes the good, the young who have their whole lifes ahead of them.
im afraid theres no answer, well none that will make any sense, everyone said to me at the time they was taken for a reason, well im still searching for that reason!
i do believe in heaven and i can picture them 2 up there watching all their loved ones and friends and one day i will meet them again.
All you can do is remember him and be there for your friend as she will need you more than ever now.x

Answer 6

in simple terms be comforted in the indisputable fact that they lived a happy existence and tht they have been by no ability compelled with the pressures of adulthood and that that they had the happyest days of their existence-early existence. be happy they have been by no ability further into the international of horrors which incorporate debt, drugs, eating... they have been enjoyed to extra suitable than they could ever comprehend and no remember what you already know that they by no ability suffered those problems... in heaven they'll stay as babies and be giggleing and bouncing around with the different little ones that have handed directly to the excellent beyond...they'll seem dow on you to work out what they could have executed with their existence, so carry your head up extreme, blow your nostril and wipe your tears, tutor that 13 12 months old what they overlooked and stay it for them, tutor them what existence is all approximately. use this no longer as a combating element, yet a step intot he destiny. whilst confronted with a desicion think of for your self lifes way too short to have doubts and youve been given the oppertunity to nonetheless be right here so stay the existence many others needed... that 13 12 months old is probable feeling unhappy that your unhappy, so smile for them and tutor them your happy for them to be in any such happy place... wish your ok and that i'm hoping you get returned heading in the right direction... in the journey that your provided the help to work out a bereavement councillor take it, you would be shocked... save an open suggestions and the international is yours... x

Answer 7

If you truly belive in god you should never question the reason he calls a child home. About 10yrs ago my 14month old nephew was called home to be with him and I feel after doing alot of soul searching he served his perpise. To get my stepmom and my dad and are family on a clean and good path in life. So yes we all hurt when a loved one dies and it will take time just know and take confert in the fact that he is with our father in heaven. God Bless you and your. All our prayers are with you.

Answer 8

This is were we differ, I have no belief if Gods or Heaven, and so while it's a great shame, I can see the random nature of death and know that there is no plan or reason for it, it just happens, and sometimes it's plain tradgic like this loss, but you'll just stress yourself further looking for a reason.

Answer 9

A child die all the time but sometimes it is not ment for them to die.To me childern should not die until they have lived a fool live .A child that dies might have a heard live but sometimes they don't.They can be killed as a ment to be or killed and a inacent by stander.My best friend was killed on her birthday.It was heard for my but I know she would want the best for me and I have to live life the way she wanted me to .Live is heard growing up these days for any child.They have alot to live for and alot of growing up to do but it is just live.People die every 10second and it is sad for a kid to die thatthat is live now days.The really world id getting heard for the kids and it hurts to see kid grow up this way but it is apart of life.I an every sorry to hear it happend but all you can do is life live day by day.Do what you think he would wanna see you do.

Answer 10

My deepest sympathy for you and your friend. I can't even began to imagine the suffering your friend is feeling right now. My son just turned four, and I can't imagine living life without him in it. I thank GOD for his blessing and pray to give me many more years to cherish life with my son. No one can answer your question, everything happens for a reason and only GOD knows why. Your friend is going thru a great deal of pain, n might blame God for taking her son away, He blessed her with 13 yrs, many mothers were blessed with less, He knows what the future brings in each one of us. Now your friend needs you more than ever, be strong for her.