Me and this girl dated a few years ago. We broke up after going out (on and off) for about a year. She has been dating this guy for a solid year. She recently told me this dream. She said that I told her I hated her, and then we ended up making out, and having sex. She says she feels something now, and this isn't the first time she has ever dreamed about me, but this is the first we had sex in one of her dreams. Were both confused about this, and wondering if she does actually like me, or what?? If anybody can offer me some serous help, then I would be greatful!!
2006-11-15 09:43:47 · 10 answers · asked by Determinate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is very obvious that there is something between you too that are not completely over yet.
Having sex = initmate relationshp, excuse to make up relationship
Projecting a relationshiop still even after breaking up is a sign of regret. Subconsciously she wants to use "having sex" in your dream to make up the mistake she has made about the split up.
She projected you in the dream because she is still thinking about you. That is very obvious way to remember some one subconsciously.
Perhaps, you two should go back together and talk it out.
2006-11-15 13:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will sound like psycho-babble, but I think she may have latent masochistic tendencies. In other words, the thought of being hurt is sexually exciting to masochists -- whether the hurt is physical or mental -- in this case mental. You tell her in the dream that you hate her, and that gets her excited so you have sex. Then when she wakes up, her subconscious mind tells her that, "Hey, this isn't so bad after all -- maybe I'm missing something -- maybe I ought to try it." Anyway, that's my take! I'm not a dream analyst nor a psychologist, but for what it's worth, that's my interpretation.
2006-11-15 09:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has one or two sex dreams every once in awhile. I wouldn't worry about it. She may care for you but she likes the friendship or is afraid that it wouldn't work out like the last time.
2006-11-15 09:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by brookie1977m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-15 12:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, she misses you and would like to be together again, but she's in a relationship and doens't know what to do about it.
she felt that you weren't as into her as she was into you, thus you telling her you hated her in the dream, but she was too keen on you anyway, so you got it on.
better she makes up her mind about her current boyfriend than start messing things up with you.
2006-11-15 09:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be a love/hate relationship she's interpreting?
2006-11-15 09:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has some unresolved feeling for you. She is wondering at least subconsciously what it would be like to be with you.
2006-11-15 09:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasnt a dream. shes playing you for a fool
2006-11-15 09:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not like you just wants to do stuff with you.
2006-11-15 09:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says it was a dream? lol j/k. i dont know!
2006-11-15 10:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by ..jennyluvz.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋