ok me and another girl have been freinds with this guy for about 6 years. he just got asked out by another girl and now me and my friend (girl) r feeling like were loosing him. he's still freindly and all but we havent talked much in days and usually were like talking 24-7. neither of us like him like him but it still hurts inside. wat should we do?
2006-11-15 09:38:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Should we stay away from him or still be normal freinds? ps were in 6th grade.
2006-11-15 10:18:25 · update #1
o ya and the girl who asked him out is my one of my freinds.
2006-11-15 10:18:58 · update #2
i think it's only natural to feel that way. but look at it also if u were the one that started the "new" relationship. i think u and ur friend should sit him down and tell him how u both feel, and set a day/night or two where just the 3 of ya'll hang out and maybe invite the gf 1 time to go and see what happens, it would probably take a load off him...and ya never know, she could be really cool and everyone hits it off.
2006-11-15 09:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...there isn't much you can do unforunatly. Sadly, it appears he chosen this other girl over his true friends. It's a sad thing...but I imagine the girl is the jealous-type and very clingy...or maybe he's putting too much attention on his girlfriend. I'm not sure how old you all are...but they'll probably break up soon and things will return to normal. Its a sad thing when people turn their backs on their true friends just because of some 'fling of the month' but sadly...people just don't care.
Confront him next time you see him and talk to him about it (but since you DON'T have feelings for him, make that apparent in the beginning) and tell him you want t hangout more. If he's a true friend he'll realize whats more important.
2006-11-15 09:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel, but you should be happy for him. If neither of you like him more than a friend then he needs to have a chance to have actual girlfriends...maybe you should ask him to introduce her to you two and all of you could hang out..Make sure you don't act resentful toward him getting a girlfriend though or that could draw him away!! i hope everything works out!! :)
2006-11-15 09:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking him if you are still friends and ask to go to the movies mall or somewere else with him and your other friend without his girlfriend good luck :)
2006-11-15 09:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His new girlfriend may not want him to hang out with other girls.
2006-11-15 09:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he proabbyl jst doesnt want his gf to think he's flirting with other girls and make her feel jelious.
2006-11-15 09:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him before she tells for you two to stop talking to him.
2006-11-15 09:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋