I am shy boy 19 years old, i always been shy and mixed up mentally. I find it hard to socalise normally when with people and I dont know how to attract the girls, even though I dont know my sexuality yet I still wan't to impress so please tell me how I can do that, also, how to get on with people more easily and 'normaly'.
2006-11-15 08:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
listen to LBC 97.3 Iain Lee show and listen to the regular caller call viranda. She/he is in the same boat and I sure if you call 0870 90 90 973 betwen 3 and 6:30pm GMT Iain will be able to put you in contact with them
2006-11-15 08:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard to. Its hard to find the right people who are worth socializing with and you'll get along with. You have to think of what places you would go, and would see people like yourself. You can just strike up a conversation about something you share ommonly at that place, and mingle. Don't be toopushy. Its slow. and its often better to take your time, and go somewher where you'll repeatedly see the same people and able to mingle again adn build friendships.
2006-11-15 16:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by lilnuttbutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not gonna find it easy to make friends if you have a bad image of urself, you'll just assume evryone else is thinking that to, try some of the internet chat room o get used to talking with people, im shy too i know it can be hard. my space, msn, yahoo chat all good places to meet ppl
2006-11-15 16:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Shiv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reading this book, it's called "The Game", by Neil Strauss. You'll learn how to pick up girls very easily.
2006-11-15 16:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you're undecided, that's good, because it will help you later on, if you're shy around girls, don't be. I know its natural to be shy but just be yourself, go out and enjoy yourself, if you're more confident in yourself, you'll attract the girls, also, if you go up and talk to them, you'll be surprised as to how far that one encounter can go! Just be yourself and go out there!
2006-11-15 17:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be kind and caring. Also, be masculine, girls like that. If you're into cars (or any kind of moterized thing lol) then use that to your advantage. Be yourself! One day the right girl will come along.
2006-11-15 16:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self enjoy life have fun work on your self esteem and when people see you having a ball they will want you be they boy or girl. you never know you might be bi you lucky b
2006-11-15 16:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by brioduinn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe have hypnotherapy or counselling to boost your confidence..this does work.i promise!!you need to just feel calmer and relaxed about yourself in order to fell relaxed around others..good luck x
2006-11-15 16:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over being shy
2006-11-15 16:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by doggystylelance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See hom other guys do it and copy them.
2006-11-15 16:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋