my best friend really loves this boy and shes been with him for about 8 and months where as she was with he exboyfriend for 2 years and she did'nt love him as much but resintly two of his friends been schduling them to when there aloud to see each other because they see each other all the time but it's not as if we tell him that his friends carn't come out with us and today and yesterday nethan his friend has been taking him away from her telling her its not her time to see him and then taking him down town to meet up with his girlfriend now when we meet up in town with are friends we seen them in mcdonalds and they was sat on the other side to us and they didnt say one word to us and when the girls came for us they just walked out and left us, then about an hour or two late we walked home and they started following us and then his girlfriend came along and they walked back down town and shes giving him chance tomorrow to see if he talks to her and sorry next page thing not enough room
2006-11-15 08:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and then friday hess going to watch wales play so she wont see him anyway and it leave saturday but ino if she dumps him she will regreat it and i no she loves him and he does love her he aint all bad hes great he treats her right its just his friend getting in the way !!
2006-11-15 08:54:19 · update #1
I think you should tell her to talk to him about how this all makes her feel. If he's more worried about his friends than his girl, maybe she'd be better off. It is good to have balance, but if his friends are interfering, she should let him know.
2006-11-15 08:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by CHRYSTAL I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok- initially, take a breath. one difficulty, as you suggested, you're "in effortless terms a youthful lady/teen perplexed approximately crushes". understand, that that's no longer as huge of a decision as you think of that's. i comprehend, i will bear in mind feeling like that, however the reality is- there'll continuously be boys and crushes. i'm 24 and it relatively is nevertheless the case. ok, now to respond- you will desire to think of approximately how severe you prefer to be with those men. finally, relationships in highschool are relaxing and exhilarating and what no longer, in spite of the undeniable fact that it relatively is no longer too many times that relationships are carried on after highschool. bear in mind, there is the potential of a protracted term romance, yet finally, it relatively is something fleeting. highschool realtionships, in my very own opinion and journey, are something exciting and and many times cases a waste of time and endurance. This rather relies upon on your outlook on relationships- and what you prefer to journey. Crushes are a actuality of existence. Now with Cole, are your thoughts greater overwhelming now by using actuality he's somebody you "can no longer" thoroughly have?? Many men in highschool are actually not finding for some variety of extreme fairy tale relationship. maximum prefer to 'hook up' as in make out and what no longer now, that way there are no dedication policies/themes. Cole sounds like your time-honored teenage guy, and it relatively is no longer inevitably a stable theory thus far a guy who's relatively a "participant". each and every woman needs to be the "one". the only the guy would substitute for, yet regrettably that infrequently happens. you will desire to no longer place those men in one classification or yet another. you comprehend your self perfect and who you experience greater like minded with. do no longer think of appropriate to the consequence. You sound like your putting too plenty rigidity on your self and your would-be boyfriends. do no longer take issues so heavily. highschool is approximately summer season romances, 2 week realtionships, and broken hearts. it is common. you comprehend your heart and what thoughts are cutting-edge and which ones are actually not. no possible permit you comprehend who's the "perfect guy" (specifically because of the fact there is not any such difficulty as perfect). you're actually not choosing a school... that's a boyfriend. One piece of advice i grants you that I supply my acquaintances and kin besides is, stop finding. stop attempting to locate a boyfriend because of the fact once you least anticipate it, he will locate you.
2016-10-15 14:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by helfinstine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved because if their relation is begining to slowy drift apart don't try to puull them back together. If you do put them back together and stop him from dumping her, relationship will have a sort of tension. I believe that you hould lave them alone, if its their tm e to break up just let it be.
2006-11-15 08:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by gamer2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she should just tell him that she gets annoyed by it and she should have him talk to his friends and just explain that since now he has a girllfriend it is only normal that he spends time with her and not him and that they can hang out with all of them or when he has time to hang with them and that they shouldnt take him away from his girl..... well atleast thats what i would do...but good luck and they shouldnt break up because of it
2006-11-15 08:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody wants to read questions this long, do they? She can surely do as she likes, with or without your blessing, leave her alone!
2006-11-15 08:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have intercourse with the two of them to show them how much they still love each other
2006-11-15 08:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she should keep going with him but they don't have to see each out her that much
2006-11-15 08:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Yasmine E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out her way and support her...
2006-11-15 08:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her
2006-11-15 08:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋