I am a single 27 year old. This past weekend I visited my friends up north. For some odd reason I felt a feeling of emptiness inside. Everyone was with their significant other. Their kids were running around, having a good time. For the past 4 to 5 months, I noticed myelf becoming more interested in babies and baby sections in retail stores. I don't understand why I feel this way. I am really terrified of relationships.
I've been burned so many times. My most recent one was with a women who just got out of a LONG relationship. We spent a lot of time together. It felt like a dream. Everything was perfect. That was the happiest I've ever been. Then she burned me. I flew 3 thousand miles twice to see. She went slept with her ex. I was really heart broken. They soon broke up again. Now we are involved again. But the feelings aren't the same. I don't trust her anymore. Her excuse was that I am not at her level of thinking...
2006-11-15 08:42:17 · 13 answers · asked by jeff c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are definatley ready to settle down. You are getting older and you need that love and commitment in your life,,although it sounds like you are going out with thr wrong kind of girl. You need to find someone whos looking for the same things as you in life and who wants to settle down and live together,,,have children. Not someone whos going to cheat on you whenever she feels the need. And you CANT have a relationship if you dont trust that person,,it just doesnt work out like that. You deserve better than this girl you are seeing and dont let her tell you anything that you are not on her level of thinking,,,,its just an excuse for her to do what she wants reguardless of your feelings. Find that special person and when you do,YOU WILL KNOW IT. Leave this one you are with now dont settle for her. She doesnt deserve you.
2006-11-15 08:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not her, not now, not ever.
You have needs but that's not the same as having to be needy, which your being at the moment.
Your only 27 live a little.
As has been said before it may be a good idea to speak to a professional to see if your suffering from a form of depression.
Everything will work out because your on the way to solving a problem simply by talking about it.
2006-11-15 09:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by Stephen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what you're talking approximately. that's perplexing to propose you although. i'm going to purely enable you to already know what i think of. i think of that in case you sense lonely on your marriage is by way of the fact your husband is neglecting you. this isn't regularly occurring, that's often an illustration that something is inflicting him to disconnect from you. If he's neglecting you and he has a historic previous of cheating, threat is that he could be cheating suited now or in the cheating approach. you do no longer say if he cheated on you although. If he did, you're able to no longer be with him now. If he did no longer consistent with threat you're able to see how he does now which you have instructed him you prefer extra interest. If he loves you he will attempt to make you happy. even with the indisputable fact that, I experience your instinct is talking to you. pay attention. good success. additionally, i do no longer trust Vitiran's opinion. If he loves you he would be sure the thank you to make you happy without your training. you're able to no longer could paintings that perplexing and tell him what to do. men are able to outstanding issues *whilst they like*. Your interest could be to pay attention and be conscious. in case you do in comparison to what you notice i prefer to advise you go away him.
2016-10-22 03:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww! well i think you should let things take it's course and don't worry if you really want a family it'll happen, just make sure you're with the right person and don't just settle for someone just for the the sake of settling down. Well I hope things work out for you.
2006-11-15 08:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Cartman the emo ranger 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That just makes me mad.... Tell her to go find someone who is at her level and leave you alone, she does not deserve you. Don't look for a relationship, let it happen, and when it does you need to trust that person....you will know when the time is right, there is someone for everybody in this world....trust me
2006-11-15 08:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by bam.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well trust me there are plenty of women looking for men like you who are ready to settle down into parenthood. You just need to get rid of her and move on I promise it won't take you long now that you know what you want. Good Luck!
2006-11-15 08:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by MelC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like you got back with her for the wrong reasons. But it sounds like you are ready to settle and I am a single mom, so if you want to talk email me at jones_marcellal@yahoo.com
2006-11-15 08:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is playing you, move on bud, their are plenty of good ones out their quit wasting your valuable years, don't grab the first one either I made that mistake and now lost the last 9 years for nothing. good luck
2006-11-15 08:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and start living man!!! Get involved in others hobbies etc. to find someone with your interests!!
2006-11-15 08:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my love, you are priceless, don't let her tell you things like that.. you deserve better than her, and she deserves nothing of you!!! she messed up... I know its hard, but you need to be patient.. the most perfect angel will be right before your eyes when you least expect it!!!
2006-11-15 08:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋