should i move?
2006-11-15 08:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Men are really strange beings. But I guess it would depend on a few things...Do you love him? Does he love you? Has he ever shown one sign of violent behavior? Do you trust him completely? I ask this becuz there is no reason to take such a huge step with him if there isn't any love there. Also if he's ever shown any signs of iolent behavior its not a good idea to move in with him. I know people get mad and act out but if its physical even if its him hitting a wall do you wanna take the chance he hurts you or the baby? I think not. The number 2 person to shake your baby is the fathers first bf's then fathers then mother then come grandparents. If someone was to shake your baby it will kill your baby. Maybe not tomorrow but it will ait will suffer life long disabilities. Theres only one case I know of that the kid is still alive he's 12 and mentally retarded. Whatever choice you decide to make please think of the baby first and for most.
2006-11-15 08:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that only you can truly answer. Many people may tell you that you should because you guys are going to be having a child together. But you need to realize that you cannot make a relationship work simply for a child. The child will be better off with being with you only if you are not happy in the relationship. On the other hand if you have a healthy relationship and want to live together go for it. Raising a child alone is not a easy task, and having both parents in the child's life is a positive. Remember that living together is always a challenge and will take some time to get used to, but if you are both willing to work together it can be a success and the best thing you have ever experienced. Good luck either way! :)
2006-11-15 16:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,but wait until you are 20-24 weeks. I dont know how long you have been living on your own, but moving in with someone else is really a big transition. I did it when i was 8 weeks, moved out and moved back in when i was 27 weeks, for my one selfish reasons. Got tired of getting up in the middle of night to frig, or something to eat. So i moved in to wear him out....and boy did it work! I never really got over "my space" thing however, we still complain about my privacy and things not to touch. SO make sure you lay boundaries first with each other before moving in....---this really does help.
2006-11-15 16:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did! I moved in with my now husband when I was about 8 weeks along. Might as well get used to it now, because you would most likely want to live together anyways. It will be an adjustment, but it will work out. Plus, it will be easier in the end when you are farther along and need help with a few things, plus it's nice to not be alone in case something happens. Good Luck!
2006-11-15 16:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok to move in with the daddy-to-be. You should definitely move in with him as soon as possible so you can get a feel of what living with him will be like. Plus you have a baby on the way with him so you will need to get used to living with him.
2006-11-15 16:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you guys plan on living together any way? If you're going to do so any way, now is a good a time as any. If you guys are just going to share responsibility of the child but not be together otherwise...it may pose a problem when one of you has a date. Unless you guys are open like that. So long as you guys can get along regardless of you personal situation, it wouldn't hurt for the child to have both of its parents under the same roof.
2006-11-15 16:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you will be comfortable. Just be sure that, since space is important to you, you have enough room. IE a 2nd bedroom/future nursury, a back yard or attic. Or a huge bath you can spend some time soaking in on your own time!!
It really is up to you. If you're really close, that's good, but if not, take a little more time to think it over.
2006-11-15 16:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Laura R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on the baby! Only move in with him after the two of you get married, to give the child a stable family to come into.
2006-11-15 17:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess do you think you could live together? I would hope you can, as you raise your child together in one home. But that is a personal decision. Even though you are used to your space, it is fun living with your loved one. Plus, then it will be a space that you can share together.
2006-11-15 16:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by K H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made so many mistakes when i was young,If i was you i would not.
If this man loves you,let him come to you and make you his wife.This
is the only way.There is so many things that can go wrong if you move
in.Both of you have to be ready to settle down,Take some time and sit
down and talk about your child life first.I wish you both the best.
2006-11-15 16:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by night magic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋