HERES THE DEAL, I HAVE THIS CHICK AT WORK THAT IS OVERWEIGHT. I GUESS SHE HATES ON ME ONE CUZ I AM YOUNGER THAN HER AND I AM THE ONE TRAINING HER. N*E*WAYZ EVERY TIME SHE SEES ME EATING SHE ALWAYS HAS SOME STUPID COMMENT LIKE DAMN WE NEVER SEE YOU EAT OR YOU BARELY EAT THATS WHY YOUR SO SKINNY. IF I OPEN MY MOUTH IT WILL BE A NASTY COMMENT. SO I NEED I WAY TO KINDA SHUT HER UP AT THE SAME TIME BE ON HER LEVEL. ANY SUGGESTIONS?
2006-11-15 08:30:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
"I'm skinny, because I'm not lazy, and I only eat when I'm (actually) hungry" Hold up some of what you have as an offer to her. "Want some?"
2006-11-15 08:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by kellythemayor 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would just tell her straight up that you do not appreciate her always commenting on your weight or lack of. Let her know that you aren't skinny on purpose and that you are healthy and that's all that matters. If she can't understand that you don't like it then I would go to your manager and file a complaint.
2006-11-15 16:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by april_fay21 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have a word with your supervisor, what the new hire is doing is called harrassment, grounds for dissmissal, no need for you to get involved in her level at all. if you think thats too harsh, or shes needed in your job futureask for a transfer for her as soon as shes done training.
2006-11-15 16:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by robert r 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might politely remind her that discrimination and harrassment of any kind is frowned upon at your work, and that it bothers you when she does that.
2006-11-15 16:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jesus loves you.
2006-11-15 16:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋