Known him for 6 years broke up 2 years ago..... stayed **** buddys.... but now its got to the point where he refused to come and take his things out of my house after a arguement over whether he had a girl or not..... then text turned to him saying he was goona kick my door off and my face in. so i put his things outside my door and called police.... waited 3 hrs still no police.... finally his bro came to take his things from the house.... but i know this is not the end of it.... he does want me but cant bare anyone else to have me.... did the changing number thing hasnt worked... do i have to move?? when he doesnt see me for 1 week or so.... hes real nice but once hes got his foot in the door he takes the piss... and i have my 9 year son to think about.... who is not his son. Wish he had changed but im sick and tired and need help for the best answers to get my life bak??? please help!
2006-11-15 08:09:26 · 13 answers · asked by KOOLI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get a restraining order.
This is an example of why f**k buddies is such a stupid idea. Since you were giving him the sex with no attachment or obligation he probably figures he can have what he wants. So far that has been the case. Every time he "did" you the idea was reinforced. He's probably too dumb to put two and two together and you apparently had some trouble figuring it out yourself.
I am always amazed that women make such incredibly stupid choices and then blame the idiot of a guy they were dumb enough to take up with. I wish I had a dollar for every nice girl I've known that ended up with some kind of jerk, abuser, addict, etc.
NOTICE to women everywhere: If it looks and smells like crap, don't step in it, it probably is just that.
2006-11-15 08:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by DB Cash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, document everything!! Everytime he calls, comes over uninvited, etc. Go to the police so that they will have it documented as well.
By the way, if you guys were worried about whether the other was single or not, things aren't over because otherwise, you wouldn't care. Make sure the relationship is OVER! Don't let him get his foot in the door. It sounds like this could be a controlling relationship that coule escalate to violence.
End it for your son.
2006-11-15 08:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him to leave you alone permanently (which you need to do), and he won't, then it sounds like you need to take this seriously and get a restraining order with your local police department.
If he's violent and immature, then I wouldn't put anything past him. Don't put the lives of you and your son in jeopardy and don't hesitate to get the authorities involved! It's been 2 years since you broke up and he hasn't moved on? Sounds like he could have some type of severe psychological problem, so please be careful!!!!!
2006-11-15 08:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her contact is bothersome to his family individuals, they could only block her or ignore about her, yet you may't administration no matter if or not they want to communicate at the same time with her. It would not look like she has been bothering you on a daily basis for the perfect 5 years. It only feels like periodically she tries to make contact. I comprehend it would nicely be annoying on some factor, yet why would you enable it develop right into a subject matter between you and your husband? She is irrelevant. the really importance she has is what you enable her to have through even addressing her. even as she e-mails, calls, or mails letters, do exactly not do not reply. depart the e-mails contained in the trash folder - unread, do not answer the phone and deliver the letters back unopened "go back to sender". do not deliver her any variety of reply. That shall we her understand she is affecting you.
2016-11-24 21:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to put your son in danger? This man obviously has some anger management issues. Are you just settling so you have a man in your life? Let him know you will NOT tolerate his threats. You may need to get a restraining order or even to move. It is not worth possibly "getting your face kicked in". You deserve better than that!
2006-11-15 08:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Syr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call the police again and have them come over change locks and all get a restraining order its important for you to not let someone like this in your life...kick this loser to the curb no matter how much you loved him or even just like his company theres more men out there just make sure the next guy you get is big enough to whoop his a **
2006-11-15 08:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order.
Tell him you're gay now and he's the reason why.
Find some really big guy to beat the crap out of him.
3 hours and no cops? I'd complain to the police department.
Hire a hit man.
2006-11-15 08:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by jirstan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone else. Believe me he will leave you alone then. Men seem to think that you still want them or if they bug you enough you will take them back. Find a new man and have him deliver his stuff to him. That will fix things.
2006-11-15 08:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl get and order of protection. and get you and your son away from there . i know it's costly but you have to think of your son so go ahead start looking and please get that order of protection until you can move. he sounds dangerous and might hurt your son instead of you . do the right thing and run it's not worth the bull sh!t
2006-11-15 08:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firearms.
2006-11-15 08:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Todd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋