i really want to read this types of books but would i get in trouble? Does wanting to read these book make me horny?
is it ok to read these types of books?
2006-11-15 08:09:17 · 10 answers · asked by killiana 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
My mom was pretty open about books--sexy fiction and all, but my dad freaked about stuff like that. So I just kept my reading private and it was all ok. As for non-fiction books about sex, I waited until my parents were not home and read "Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask" and "The Sensuous Woman."
I think reading erotica is a good way to educate yourself and demystify the whole sex thing. Maybe you *are* horny, but that's natural. As a parent myself, I think it's ok to read whatever you want to. Just be aware that lots of hot novels omit the kinds of precautions--like condoms-- in the sex scenes.
2006-11-15 13:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Switch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I’m going to disagree with the other answers. ACTUAL erotic books (and the basic Harlequin lines are not erotica) are not intended for children. And before anyone mistakenly thinks that I’m offended by the genre…I’m not. I actually write erotic romance, among other things. These are books that are written for, and intended to be read, by adults. I know many erotic authors, and not one of them would EVER support a minor reading their work.
If you want romance, check out Harlequin books. As a parent (and yes, I have teenagers) I would not have a problem with my child reading a Harlequin (provided it wasn’t from the Spice line), but I’d have a HUGE problem with them reading an Ellora’s Cave book.
As far as “Does wanting to read these book make me horny?” Maybe, or maybe it just makes you curious. That’s perfectly natural at your age. But that doesn’t change the fact that erotic books are not intended for minors.
2006-11-15 17:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my humble opinion the only reason a ascertain would desire to ever censor what I toddler reads or watches is while the ascertain is only too lazy to have a verbal substitute with the toddler appropriate to the content fabric of suggested e book, movie, video interest, etc. i began examining horror books and staring at horror video clips plenty youthful that 14, yet my mom and dad have been continuously there to ascertain that I understood what the version between fiction and actual existence became. in case you prefer to maintain your toddler remoted from the international then this is your prerogative, yet while she's interested in SK, or the horror type frequently, i'm specific she will study it with or without your permission. that's only the way youngsters are. possibly you will desire to study the e book mutually and characteristic an open verbal substitute afterwards which might finally supply you some high quality bonding time besides as no longer stifling your toddler's pastimes. only to offer you slightly greater info, so some distance as horror novels pass, SK is worry-free. there is often slightly gore and frequently some intercourse, yet none of that's amazingly picture. His thoughts continuously have a time-honored ethical to them besides and in the top Evil is often punished (albeit each and every so often because of the fact the stable has had to sacrifice very much to ascertain this take place, yet hi, isn't that how actual existence is?) wish this helped.
2016-10-15 14:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by helfinstine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if my answer is relavent, since im a guy, but I think it all depends what sort of mom you have, if she's strict already then dont risk telling her.
I think at 14, curiousoty is at large, I got caught with alot of 'non educational books' at that age, but it wasnt a big deal for my parents for some reason. So know that doesnt make you horny, just curious.
2006-11-15 08:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Arpan G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether those books are already in your house. If they are, your parents probably won't object. I suggest you pick up a Harlequin Historical at a yard sale or flea market. They have sex scenes. If your mom notices, tell her that you are interested in that time period. She'll probably buy it.
When she gets used to you reading historical romances, then go on to Silhouette Desire and books from Ellora's Cave.
2006-11-15 08:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by loryntoo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your parents as to whether you will get in trouble.
Will it make you horny? Also, just depends on you.
Is it ok? Well, I don't think it will cause any lasting psychological damage or anything.
2006-11-15 08:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None at all. At that date neither of us even knew that they existed. I am aged 64-ish. In the context of your age and the circumstances of 2006... "Go for it ".
2006-11-15 09:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 14 and i read books like that but i dont tell my momma
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2006-11-15 08:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she was a strict school teacher.
2006-11-15 08:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why read books when you can watch videos? 14 and a girl....hmm i dunno, i guess don't try it
2006-11-15 08:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋