I have a co-worker that I just don't know if she likes me or she is just being funny or what. She always says hi to me in a flirty sort of way and she always jokes around with me. We go back and forth all the time picking on each other. She always says "******(myname), I love you".... I just think thats wierd she says that all the time. I got hurt at work, and I was talking to her about it, and she kept saying "honey, im so sorry" "I feel so bad that youre hurt".... and she when she was talking to me she was touching my shoulder and I swear she started to cry for a moment! so i dont know... and shes always touching me when shes talking to me.... i dont know...? Is she just being friendly or what?
2006-11-15 07:44:10 · 6 answers · asked by U2 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Knowing her orientation would help a lot.
If she's straight, then she may just be trying to be a good friend. If she's Bi or Lesbian, IMO I can't see how there is any way of interpreting this, but that she's attracted to you.
2006-11-15 08:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell. She could be one of those people that makes a lot of contact with others, or she could be interested in you. There's only one way to find out. Go ahead. Make a move.
2006-11-15 16:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you a lot. So why don't you make plans to meet up out of work? Go do something together. I'm sure then you will get to know for sure once your out of the work environment... Why dont you just plant one on her? Do you like her?
2006-11-15 15:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me she does like u the question do you like her back and if u do then thats great take her out do somthing with her and tell her that u have the same feelings for her as she has for u and if u dont like her like that then straight up tell her hey look ur a really nice girl and all but i dont like u like that and i think its best that we are friends. if you dont like her flirting with u then tell her but thats what she is doing is flirting with you
2006-11-15 17:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure she's a lesbian? it would help if you knew that, she could just be a good friend, i say "i love you!" all the time to my girlfriends and they know i'm straight.
2006-11-15 15:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell-could be friendly,could really like you.But i would have to go with really likes you!
2006-11-15 15:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋