I realy like one of my friends and he has a girlfriend. They broke up over the summer and got bavk together when school started. I went to the dance with him and had alot of fun. We laught and danced so plz help tell me what i should do.
Thank.
2006-11-15 07:43:23 · 3 answers · asked by anne marie f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i went to the dance with him and he has a girlfriend. He knows i like him .but he just wants to be friends what to do?
thanks
2006-11-15 07:59:31 · update #1
Honey, all i can say is.. take some time with him.. not enough soo other girl will become suspecious. Im sorry to say that but, you know you cant do anything about it... like going to him and saying hang out with me more.. or some thing like that.. last thing you want is both them not talking to you.. but i got to say, be happy for him girl!!! if you think he likes her more.. then thats o.k. you just know he has not forgotten about you girl. He still knows you, not like your out of his life.. he wants to hangout with you too.. just do this.. give him some space for a while.. and things will be ok.. life goes on.. and we cherish the moments we had with another.. i promise you that doll face.. nothing we do or happens to any of us in the world can be changed from our minds.. it is always there which keeps us moving on in life.... having a family.. kids... house.. it never stops.. just be happy you know him now, and that he knows you... try asking him to like hangout with you.... see what he feels about it.. he can choose who he wants to be with.. if things dont go well between you two... dont worry.. cant express that enough.. its not your fault if he makes a decision you dont like..
Hope it works out for best of you anne
Sincers
Shawn Miller
Toronto, Ontario
2006-11-15 07:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Shawn Miller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me once, with this one super awesome guy and we were like best friends, and we went out before, but over this summer he was going out with someone and eventually they broke up, and now me and him are together. So, maybe they just need some time, and also he might not know that you like him, maybe show small ways of showing your interested in him, but do that without making him cheat on his girlfriend! Plus, this of it this way- he might be just more as a friend. Even though you think that you guys would be perfect for eachother, if it actually did happen, then you'd be throwing A LOT away. You guys might feel less uncomofrtable around eachother, and you guys might not act like yourselves. Plus if there was a hookup, then brakeup, you might be throwing away your whole entire friendship. So there's a plus and a minus for everything. And even if you guys did go out then brake up, you could always be friends. But for now, if you really think you want to go out with him, just give him small hints and wait to see what happens with him and his girlfriend. I hope you get what you need/want! â¥
2006-11-15 07:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by blinkbackyesterday@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.
2006-11-15 07:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋