We're both girls but we're in love, but a friend of ours said if we get together, she's never speaking to us again because it's not right. It's not my fault is it? My bff and I are in love. What to do?
2006-11-15 07:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Perfect 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My bff and I love each other, so we should go out regardless of my friend, you know?
2006-11-15 07:36:06 · update #1
You can't control who your heart loves, and trust me you will find other friends, if it was not this female you were in love with, your friend would find something wrong with someone else you were with, even if it were a male. You have to let go of the friend if you truly love this person, that is stronger than friendship. Good Luck
2006-11-15 07:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by kirsten215 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your friend can't accept it then you deserve better. I'll never recommend throwing away friendship for a boyfriend/girlfriend, but your friend doesn't seem to friendly. Whether you go out with your best friend or not I'd suggest rethinking your relationship with the moody sounding friend. Also I think that anyone who is lucky enough to fall in love with someone they already look at as a friend and have them return the feeling should go for it.
2006-11-15 11:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes matters of the heart don't always make sense to us or others but you can't spend your life worrying what everyone else is going to think. If you love each other and you feel that it's right then go with your heart and not the opinions of others that will not matter much in a few years anyway!
2006-11-15 08:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your best friend should hook up... I think this other girl is jealous and sad that your guys aren't in love with her... Kind of like the third wheel out, oh well. Now she will have more time to find her very own bff.....
2006-11-15 07:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love then go with it. If your other friend cant accept that then she was never really your friend to begin with. Who cares what she thinks?
2006-11-15 07:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a loser your friend is. She is NOT your friend. Best bet: Stick with your best friend whom you love. This so called friend is a stick in the mud! Drop her quick......there are so many other people who would love to be your friend whether you are gay, straight, bi, black, white or even purple!
2006-11-15 10:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by Syr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she ignores you because of your sexuality, she isn't worth your time to begin with. If you two love each other, then be together.
2006-11-15 08:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, that is so easy. forget about your other friend. who is to say who is right and who isnt. be with the person you love, that is life...the persuit of love
2006-11-15 08:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by theinfamousjae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First answer is best. She's not really your friend.
2006-11-15 07:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they can't accept you for who you are then they're not really your friend.
2006-11-15 07:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Phantom Ice-Cream 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋