Dream analysis? Tell me what this dream means please....?

Question

Last night, I had a dream that my husband and I were at a mutual female friends' house. (*In reality, she has gone through a recent separation from her husband of 10 years and is in the process of divorce.) I dreamt that she was giving my husband a leg massage! In the dream, I confronted her and even punched her in the face. She stopped of course.
(*In reality, my hubby and I have been going through some rough times lately too...) I know this sounds like a weird dream but it was quite upsetting when I woke up. Should I tell my hubby?

Answer 1

Friend

To see your friends in your dream, signifies aspects of your personality that you have rejected, but are ready to integrate these rejected part of yourself. The relationships you have with those around you are important in learning about yourself. Additionally, this symbol foretells of happy tidings from them and the arrival of good news.

Legs

To see someone else's legs in your dream, represents your admiration for that person. You need to adopt some of the ways that this person does things.

Massage

To dream that you are getting a massage, suggests that you are lacking sensual or sexual stimulation in your waking life. You may also need to take better care of your body. It also represents nurturance and comfort. Alternatively, it suggests that you need to let go and stop being so defensive. (I presume this would apply to what you think about your husband in this case.)

Punch

To dream that you are punching someone or something, represents hidden anger and aggression. It may also be a symbol of power and your ability to draw strength from within yourself.

Possibly you admire your husband who you recognise needs affection from you? Maybe you are hiding the fact you are angry at yourself for letting your husband down/angry at your husband - or you could be standing strong on an issue.

Don't totally trust that. I'm not a professional. I just used a website, which you could also use to your benefit. (See sources.) As to whether you should tell your husband or not, I don't know. If there is an issue you need to sort out, highlighted by this dream then I would say yes. Would your husband react badly to the news of your dream (he could interpret the dream as you being suspicious about the friend and him)? Would it comfort you to tell him about the dream? There are several issues to weigh up.

Answer 2

First of all, if you tell your husband, nobody here can predict his reaction. If it were my current husband, he might laugh it off or feign shock and/or disgust. If it were my ex-husband, he might take it as a suggestion and start going after her, hoping to get lucky in a rebound situation - one of the reasons he's an "ex".

I would recommend keeping silent about the whole thing and let it blow over. This is your subconscious concern - your dread of losing your husband as your friend is losing hers - and not based on actual events. Otherwise you could end up throwing the two of them together or at the very least, damaging a friendship by throwing jealousy and suspicion into the mix.

Answer 3

Its proberly just your mind playing tricks...you know shes single and that you and your hubby are having problems. Its just the things playing on your mind. Your husband shouldnt mind he might just laugh it off...dreams dont always hold a meaning for the worse...maybe you worried that his going to leave you and your going to end up like your friend? But dont worry im sure its nothing...If your that worried check it up in a few dream books...they will all tell you something different anyways. Sorry i couldnt be much more help. xxx

Answer 4

This is your dream, if you tell your hubby, it will only make him laugh in a way or............ However

This dream means that you are losing trust in your hubby. Having her projected to have thought of affair with your friend could mean insecurity and losing confidence yourself. Remember, this is coming out from your subconscious mind. If in reality, he gave you impression, yes, no doubt you would dream about it, but there is no indication he would do that to you. You are only giving him message that you don't trust him if you tell him

Answer 5

It shows the ignorance of selfish attachment to your husband... You project your happiness onto him, and he becomes your constant, something which you can hold onto for support.. The problem with this, is that when this "constant" is interrupted bye a change, your natural reaction due to attachment will be to hold onto your happiness/constant.. The only way in this situation is to defend, or attack, in order to preserve the constant(happiness) from changing.. If you expect happiness, and it's not fulfilled then you are unhappy, and will try to restore it naturally... Which is exactly what you did in your dream...

The antidote to this, is understanding that life is always changing, and that happiness does not come externally, like from your husband.. It is of the mind that happiness originates from... Then try to understand that greed and attachment are of the mind, which caused you to have this dream in the first place... Realize that Love is selfless, wanting and working for the other to be happy... This is True love... Hope this helps..

Also, it's always a good idea to express what you're feeling to him, otherwise there will always be an uneasiness when something likewise pops up in conversation

Cheers!

Answer 6

dont worry we all have these kind of dreams.your friends situation is on your mind and becouse you and your husband are having bad patch your mind is working overtime.talk to your husband by all means but dont expect him to know why you had this dream.you maybe feeling insurcure at the moment.but talk is better then not talking.when you tell him try to make it light and not accusing

Answer 7

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Answer 8

You fear losing your husband to someone else. Tell him about the dream so he can give you extra affectionate reassurances. It could only help.

Answer 9

It sounds like you feel insecure in your marriage, and you should tell your husband about it and work towards making you guys stronger

Answer 10

u should confront him.u r prbably repressing memories of your husband and girl friend flirting with each other and being way to friendly.