Everytime when my fiance and i watches a movie, he get sexual on me. like we'd makeout then he gets touchy and feely..i feel like he expects to do stuff..but im not ready for that type of stuff.. i wanna remain pure until im married to him.what do i do?
2006-11-15 07:09:31 · 5 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok the really obvious and simple answer to this is tell him. But it can a lot more complicated than that. No you shouldn't have to put out until you're ready, however finding a middle point doesn't hurt. Sit down and talk to him tell him that you're not ready and really wanting to wait. But also listen to his side and hear what he has to say. No, neither of you should have to feel isolated or pushed, but then you shouldn't have to completely give either. Finding an ok grey area is ok.
2006-11-15 07:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by jacklynnbryant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that. Try to wait until marriage.
2006-11-15 07:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to wait till marriage
2006-11-15 07:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Yush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that you are not ready. If he repsects you he will stop. If not, dump him.
2006-11-15 07:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kabu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit on a chair instead of on the sofa with him.
2006-11-15 07:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋