how should i tell my boyfriend?

Question

how should i tell my boyfriend that my pregancy test is postive, not negative when i thought that it was please help.

Answer 1

Say "honey, I have a surprise for you..." And then show him the test.
I told my husband in a father's day card and wrote like it was from the baby.

Answer 2

You may be feeling a lot of emotions toward him. You may be angry with him, scared that he might leave you, or afraid he'll want you to do something you don't want to do. Your feelings are normal.

Just remember --- No matter what he says or does, what YOU do is your decision. No one else can make it for you. But you are not alone. Our counselors will be happy to work with you to decide how to tell your boyfriend.

Here are some tips to prepare you for the discussion:


Begin the process of confirming that you are pregnant. We can provide you with a free pregnancy self-test kit and a referral to a health care provider to confirm the results.
Talking with people you trust can help relieve your anxiety and start you toward receiving the support you will need.
Telling a person you trust also gives you the opportunity to practice telling him.
Choose a time and a setting when both of you will be in good moods, relaxed and in a place with minimal distractions.
Don't play games or try to make him guess the news. Be candid and inform him that the two of you have gotten pregnant together.
Avoid setting a negative mood, "I have really bad news…" Start with something positive like your appreciation of him or the relationship.
Be prepared for his first reactions:


Silence---This is a common response. Remember when you first saw the positive test. You were probably speechless. When you first tell him he will probably act the same way. It doesn't mean he isn't interested or won't support you. It may just take a day or two before a real conversation begins.
"I'll support you with whatever you want to do"---This is also common. He may not understand the full extent of your needs. But his willingness to support you is a good sign. Just remember that ultimately this is your decision. No one can force you to do something you're not comfortable doing.
"Is it mine?"---Yes, this is insensitive, but unfortunately it is also a common response. It is probably more a shock response versus a true belief about your relationship.

Answer 3

i told my bf by showing him the test and said congrats baby ur gonna b a dad again(coz we already have 1 child). then i made a joke bit sad i no i said g u must have good sperm. it made him laugh

Answer 4

Sorry dude, you did in fact knock me up.

Answer 5

SHOW HIM THE TEST AND WAIT FOR HIM TO SAY SOMETHING :)
GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

just tell him wen u see him next