Why do the men always have to pay for everything?

Answer 1

Men don't. Gentleman do.

It's just one of those things that comes into play because you're a guy. Some women actually don't like it. There was a time when I didn't. Then, I was brainwashed! My fiance explained that when I "let" him pay for dinner, it makes him feel good. If I pay or we go dutch, I am depriving him of the pleasure of feeling good about himself because he did something nice and thoughful for someone else.

I remember the first time my son paid for dinner (I think he was 9 and I gave him the cash). His face just lit up!

It's an old-fashioned thing. But...it's the same old-fashioned thing like opening a door. Think about your grandma walking out of a store with a bag in each hand and a teenager (young man) cuts right in front of her just before she gets to the door and he doesn't hold it open for her. That would bother me if it was my grandmother or anyone else's. The young fella doesn't have to hold the door open, but it would be "plain old nice" if he did. Same with "paying for everything" (that is if you're talking about dinner and going out)---not the same for personal items or clothing if you're just dating or just friends.

Answer 2

Men do not need to pay for everything it is just traditional on a date that they pick up the tab. Guys want to impress women with money most of the time but this is not always the answer to getting to know someone. Why waste your money if there is no way it will work out anyways. Try to do something that does not cost anything like sit in a park and talk.

Answer 3

It's a dating tradition that dates back to the days when women did not work outside the home and therefore had no income. Men paid for everything back then. However I believe in a new relationship a man should continue the tradition. But when they are committed, there is certainly nothing wrong with her pitching in on some of the dating expenses. A woman I dated for months use to pay for some of the dates...movies dinner etc.

Today we need a blend of tradition and common sense. Dating isn't cheap, so unless you have a lot of money...discuss it with her.

Answer 4

They don't where I come from. I pay about 1/2 the time and I am not a male. But i do this because I want to not because I have to. He would pay for everything if I let him.

Answer 5

They don't have to pay all the time but when a man has asked a woman out for dinner it is understood that he has the means to pay for it. Anything less only proves he's a cad. It is easy to go dutch (split the bill) if it is mutually agreed upon before the date even begins. If the woman has asked the man out then she can be expected to pay for the entire meal although it is good manners for the man to either offer to pay, pitch in or leave the tip and buy dessert. You waanna get laid right?

Answer 6

Men are considered the providers of a family, this means that they should provide for also a loved one. There for men have the obligation when they have a girlfriend to pay for them. To show that you love them and want to be with them. Also shows women that you can support her. Gives them a relive to know there man has money; and is not broke and borrowing from mom and dad.

Answer 7

Um I would say that they don't have to pay for anything. Me and my boyfriend switch off when we go out. I believe he probably pays for more things but thats his choice. I always offer to pay. Some men like to more then others.

Answer 8

They don't always have to pay, but men are naturally looked at as being the providers.

Answer 9

They don't. I always offer to pay or split bills but if they insist I accept graciously. If I invite a man to dinner I always insist on paying.

Answer 10

Because woman have something that All "straight" men want.
And if you want it, you'll have to pay for it.
One way or another, you'll pay.