I wasready to go for it but found out a lot of people experienced pain,lack of sex drive ,etc so now not so sure
Also is there a vas deferans between surgical techniques ?!
2006-11-15 06:39:29 · 25 answers · asked by steve L 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I had the rip and snip and to be honest its not that bad. As far as the operation goes the most painful bit is the jabs. They are a bit spicy it has to be said! Apart from that its a doddle.
2 years on and the op has been a success. Every once in a while though i do feel as though Ive been kicked in the bollox. But this pain only seems to last about 5 mins. Its the best form of contraception. All us blokes hate condoms , its like sucking a toffee with the wrapper on. Honestly though mate you will be fine . I was back at work the next day.
2006-11-17 07:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by warpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this post is going to contain adult material because I'm an adult responding to an adult. If you can't handle reality, then please don't read this post.
Okay, that being said ... do you understand what a vasectomy is? The vas deferans are the tubes that carry the sperm from the testicles up through the prostrate, where they are mixed with other fluids and then carried on into the penis to be ejaculated. The testicles make the male hormones, and are in NO way altered or damaged by this proceedure.
The doctor opens a very small (less than 1-inch long) incision in the scrotal sack. With very small tools, they carefully lift out the vas deferans. The doctor then cuts the vas deferans, and removes a small section from each side -- one leading from each testicle. With clamps (or a needle and thread), the vas dererans are tied back and clamped (or sewn) into place. Some doctors will also use a cauterizer to seal the open ends of the vas deferans before clamping and/or stitching. The vas deferans are then returned to the scrotal sack, and the small incision is closed on the outside of the scrotum. The proceedure is reversible, but the success rate is limited -- success being defined as a viable pregancy after the reversal.
Pain is pain, and it's manageable with medication. A simple ice-pack, some tylenol and a few days of rest is usually all that's needed to recover from a vasectomy. Yes, I understand that guys have a very low tolerance for pain -- especially in that area. Follow your doctor's orders for pain management, take the medications he/she prescribed -- don't try to "tough it out", don't be a "baby". Just do what the doctor says! Use a bag of frozen peas as your "ice pack", they are cold and can be shaped to fit around "your package". And last, but not least, remember the amount of pain your wife went through to give you children and "take it like a man".
The "lack of sex drive, ect.", is mostly in the guy's head. He's now shooting "blanks" and he feels like less of a guy because he can't get his woman pregnant anymore. For most guys, it's a very liberating feeling because the vasectomy virtually eliminates any possibility of pregnancy, therefore, they can screw as much as they want without a condom or other birth control. (That's my hubby's take on it, and he has his vasectomy done about 6 years ago.)
Talk to your wife. Talk to your doctor. Make an adult decision about an adult matter. Good luck!
2006-11-15 07:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a vasectomy 7 years ago
quite painful
but then I am a man and it was down there
but recovered in a few days
however did have recurring pain for the following 6 years until I had my epidydimus removed
a more painful op
but again nothing too serious
I have watched other men have the op
and walk out of the hospital within a couple of hours
and other suffer with the anaesthetic
I suppose you don't know until you've tried
anyway
I hate condoms and my wife had had some difficult pregnancies
so I had the op
discovered that I didn't want sex for a few days after
did want sex but couldn't due to discomfort for a few more
and then back to normal
did discover a new interest in gay sex
and have dabbled a bit
made my life more interesting
2006-11-15 21:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by wwJad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all anytime someone cuts on you, there is a chance of pain. The only pain is probably from how your body responds to the procedure. I had one and felt absolutely nothing. There was a little swelling but I was told to just take it easy for a few days until it went down. If you follow instructions, you won't have any problem. You will have to take some tylonol or something for minor pain, but it's not much at all.
There is no lack of sex drive. The connection is not there. Sex drive is mental not physical.
There are two basic techniques:
1) The Dr. simply cuts the Vas Deferrens tube and sews it or seals it somehow.
2) The Dr. cuts the tub in 2 places, thus removing a section.
#2 is the better because from time to time you will hear of men having the tubes "reconnect" or "Grow Back" late in life and BAM...along comes little Johnny. The 2nd option is better because a section of the tub is actually removed and the chances of growing back or "reconnecting" is eliminated.
I don't like kids that much. After my son was born I had the procedure. I go for broke everytime and have no worries.
But be warned......there is a period of time after the procedure in which you have to ....eh...well....drain it all out before going for broke. I know of men who had the procedure, waited a week, and then went for it only to have a kid 9 months later. Your Dr. will tell you to use protection for at least 6 weeks after the procedure.
2006-11-15 06:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 14:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had a Vasectomy Some Pain abut 2 day's.Ice Took Care Of It. No Loss In Sex Drive. And Man Is It Nice Going Bareback.
2006-11-15 06:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by bob r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Vasectomy is simple surgery.It cuts the sperm conducting tube in the testice and tied ,so that sperms will not be ejaculated and will not reach inside woman.You can leave hospital on same day.It is 100ercent reliable.The operation can be reversed in case you need child later(but expensive).There will not any reduction in pleasure either to man or woman.All problems some people say are psychological and due to fear that vasectomy make man less virile.It is not correct.Erection will remain unchanged.It may be longer after vasectomy.But after vasectomy some perms will stll be lsft and inorder to prevent pregnancy,before starting sex conduct a sperm count test and ensure that no sperm is contained in ejaculated fluid.or for somemore time use condoms.
Some people say pregnancy even after vasectomy.It is not correct,sex might have been at the time when still some sperms where left in the track.Or else the woman may be with somebody else.Vasectomy is 100 percent reliable,easy and speedy.
2006-11-16 15:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No because I made the decision with my wife when we decided to not have another pregancy. A friend of mine said what if you get divorced. My answer was that I am done with kids no matter who it is with. God forbid I get a divorce or she passes away I still don't want anymore children. Who ever I am with better have their own or don't want any of their own and love the two that I have because I am done. I am not wiping another little $hitty but or walking the house with a baby. I love my kids but I am done no more for me
2016-03-17 07:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-12-21 18:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problems with the vasectomy. It hurt quite a lot after the anaesthetic wore off, & was a bit swollen, but I could walk OK after 3 days & within a week everything seemed normal, if still a bit tender.
Afterwards, all inhibitions can go. Carefree sex!
Just one downside. Years later we changed our minds - wanted more kids & couldn't.
2006-11-15 10:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by dzerjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋