ok i have a x boy friend that i real love but he laft me 9 mounth ago for a girl that i onec had a fight with and she is now having a baby by him and whin he find out that she was having a baby he laft her and told her that he will hlep her with the baby but he did not wont her because he real wonts me and that he loves me and i love him to so if you love some one should you give tham a 2 try one miter what yse or no
2006-11-15 06:37:10 · 12 answers · asked by lil_winnie_1414 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Uh, no. This guy's a loser. He leaves you for someone else, gets her pregnant, then leaves her and wants you back? What are you thinking? Well, maybe you're not. Let me do it for you, tell him to take a hike and get out of your life. You don't deserve him.
2006-11-15 06:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story sounds to me as if the other girl was trying to get to you by taking your man from you, must have been a time of weakness for him, or even you and he were fighting or something. This is really up to you, just think how did he treat you when you two were together, do you think that you had somthing good or bad? What I mean is, I hear this all the time "one girl say to the other, I'm going to steal your man because I hate you", and this has nothing to do with how she feels about him, or even how he feels about her, only that she wants to make sure that he isn't with you. More to this matter is that she now has a baby, which means that she just opened her legs to give him what what most men want, and may have even given him something to make him not think right, which is why he's telling you. If you are thinking about getting back with him, don't let him back quickly, put him through a test just to make sure that yo are the only girl for him, plus sso that you can see where his head is at.
2006-11-15 06:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would give him another try if you really love him like you say you do and if he really wants to be with you. But, you will want to make sure that he wants to be with you and not the other girl. I actually just got back with my x boyfriend. I gave him another chance and I did this because I love him so much and I care for him a lot too. So I hope you make the right choice. Do what your heart says to do.
2006-11-15 06:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by Krissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you. It sound like he do not know what he want. He wanted her now he want you. If you believe he love you and you love me. Than go get your man. But remember he have a baby on the way. That going to change everything. If I was you I would fine me another man. This one have to many problem now.
2006-11-15 06:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you're quite young, from your spelling (spell check here works, try it *smiles*)...so why would you want to get back with a guy who dumped you for another chick, got her pregnant, and then wants to come back? He's going to be too busy helping support his child to have a girlfriend for a while...
I'd leave him be...he's got more than he can handle right now anyway...he's not going to have anything for you (at least not anything worth having)...
2006-11-15 06:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....they will always have to be around each other now and as long as you're with him you will have to deal with him being around her knowing that at one time he chose her over you,,,you will never know when he will decide to go back to her for "the baby's sake" can u handle that?
2006-11-15 07:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Tabatha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u still love ur ex boyfriend when u know that he has a new baby momma??? and second he will still have to pay for child support no matter what but the quesion is can u trust him again???
2006-11-15 06:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Filipina Paradise♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. He obviously has no respect for women, doesn't truly understand love, and has serious commitment issues. You need to respect yourself enough to not get played anymore.
2006-11-15 06:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Joanna V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His behaviour shows immaturity and selfishness. If that's what you're into, go ahead and get yourself hurt! Sounds like fatal attraction to me, not love.
2006-11-15 06:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have done that my man did the same thing to me and were still dilling with it it is hard noing that the other person has his baby so be prepared for that
2006-11-15 06:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by carebearblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋