2006-11-15 06:35:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lie to him and see how he likes it. Sometimes when nothing else works you have to SHOW them how it feels. Make sure he discovers your lies though without you being obvious.
2006-11-15 06:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A very difficult thing---to live with a liar and be married to them too. If the lies are about inconsequential things and you're married to an otherwise "great" person (good provider, good friend, same interests, etc.), is it really a big deal? If you can answer yes, then you've got a problem. If no, then let it go. If it's about illegal or immoral activities (I think you know what I mean...), you may want to seek counseling [legal, spiritual, or professional]. These counselors won't solve your problems, but they can give you guidance. In the end, you have to decide what you are willing to live with so you can be with that person. And also, what are the results of staying with them? If it's about illegal activities, ask yourself if you could be arrested or implicated. If it involves affairs, ask yourself if you are willing to live with an STD. These are questions only you can answer... You have to live with yourself and with the frustration or happiness. I hope that helps!
2006-11-15 06:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by whadda-dingo-gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, and wasted half my life married to someone who compulsively lied and swore he'd change many many times. I began to realize the lies were like cockroaches... for each one I caught, there must have been dozens (hundreds?) I didn't. Now we are divorced and I still catch him lying with his kids. You have to ask yourself whether you can put up with living with a liar. It's bad enough catching him yourself, but the stress, embarrassment and humiliation that comes from him getting caught by someone else - a family member, friend, coworker - is even worse. Sadly, it reflects on you as his wife...friends by association and all.
2006-11-15 07:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by CC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be ok. there is mild on the top of the tunnel. Do you have a minister, priest, or counsellor to talk to? Do you have an actual chum to whom you will desire to turn? you choose some help. i don't comprehend approximately your situations (eg. artwork, little ones, mom and dad, different kin duties, funds, etc.), yet you DO have alternatives. Say some prayers, ask God (as you recognize God) for help, and look after your self. Take walks! consume nicely! in this time of discomfort and confusion, do no longer overlook the fundamentals of looking after your self. readability will come - stable success.
2016-10-15 14:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 10 yrs. with a lire. there's nothing u can do. because if there was he stop lien by now. don't u think? u can't change that. all your doing is wasting your time your life. ask yourself why is he lien? don't say u don't know after 8 yrs u know this man.why would someone keep lien and lien to the one person there so post to be faithfully to. Lady u got your eyes wide shut. open them up. before u know it your life is passing u by and your the one worry about him inching your head why why is he lien way doe's he keep doing this. don't act dumb u know. the question is Way are u going to do. do u think he's seeing other women, spending to much money , drinking etc.. I bet u his doing one of these 3 or all 3. he won't stop 8 yrs should prove that to you.
2006-11-15 07:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont like lies & you dont want to tell him any lie stay at your standard try to install moral with your good character try to bring your heart & brain together to reach on certain respectfull behaviour every thing will change according to your wishes.
2006-11-15 09:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Syed T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! I myself am married. Not for 8 years..but this doesn't look like a good sign....
have u considered asking him why he lies? how do you know he is lying..
perhaps seek a counslor, if you want to selvage your marriage? Good luck!
2006-11-15 06:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by worldtrotter4112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can never breathe in an atmposhpere of lies. Get into deep counseling and see if it can be corrected, otherwise, you don't really have a marriage so why pretend.
2006-11-15 06:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why have you put up with 8 yrs of lies? I know I wouldn't. I wouldn't put up with 1 day of them.
2006-11-15 06:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is there ever a right answer or do you chew him out over any answer?If he just lies about everything,,leave him.
2006-11-15 06:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋