what if the friend of yours gotten misunderstood you, jus b'cus of someone else, and snubs you.. ignores you!
2006-11-15 06:20:01 · 17 answers · asked by i'm the best!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i do the same or go and directly ask my friend y he or she is doing that.
2006-11-15 19:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by abeeksha0307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as a person starts ignoring you, snubs you etc. because he / she heard something from someone else, then, that person is not your friend. A friend would have come to you verified the facts and forgiven you if you were wrong or lambasted the person who tried to break you two up. So if someone you thought was your friend has started ignoring you etc. tell the person to “F” Off!
2006-11-15 16:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This kind of situation arises not only among friends but with other people whom you associate.Here is my suggestions;
Try not to explain the situation again,it will become worse.
Find something interesting in him or her that triggers him or her.
Do not discuss that topic again so that he or she may irritate.
Wait for the time as time will prove who is wrong or right.
Forgive & forget that incident from your heart & mind both.
I have some books that may help you to understand what I am talking about.You may email me at ppandya_1@yahoo.com to give you more insight.
Prakash
2006-11-15 14:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Prakash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go up to him/her and talk ...if she/he does not seem to believe you..how do u think this friendship can go ahead..Ur friend does not have the trust on u otherwise surely he/she would not have believed u on some misunderstanding...he/she should have called u to clarify everything..but that did not happen..take time see ...wait for the right time....if she/he shows interest then try go and explain him/her...u can do something..give him/her a call at his/hers house to and tell her/him that they have misunderstood u..clarify everything..i think u can win on Ur friend again...but just don't force...things..because..u should give Ur Friend that time n space to recover from that by them self....
2006-11-15 14:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a very bad feeling that mis understanding between friends. Its such a pain like pain before death, while detaching friend.
Its just a bad period. But you have to wait for the best time. As long as there is nothing wrong from your end...do not try passifying. may become still rude. But donot do harm. help by not disturbing. but keep friendship alive. Pray God.
2006-11-15 23:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is a matter of time, yar. If a friend starts ignoring, just behave yourself. When he (if he) understand his misunderstanding, he would love you more. Wait and see. Don't try to clear the misunderstanding because misunderstanding is a matter of time. Quarrels and repentence, both make the friendship stronger.
2006-11-16 02:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi buddy,
whoever you are, right now m facing the same problem too. but my frnd doesn't even want to talk with me though i tried a couple of times. the worst part is that she spread some damn scandals about me among other students...false one's of course.
i think i'll just wait for everything to clear out quick, if not by itself i'll talk to her.u try that too, but if they don't care. well i'll leave her chapter closed and lead my life on with the others...but believe me if u were a gr8 frnd to him/her ur frnd'll come back to u.
CHEER UP BUDDY. LIV UR LIFE TO THE FULLEST N LUV IT LOTS.
ur pal
2006-11-15 15:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by ur buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try to talk to yr friend and try to clear any misunderstanding. If your friend isn't ready to listen to u, try to email her...and still no luck......Then I would suggest, doing the same..Ignoring. You know u didn't anything wrong...and that's all that matters. You tried to explain yourself but nothing gets passed a deaf ear!
2006-11-15 14:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Confused in Love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi friend if that friend is ur very good friend then ask him what happened why he is ignoring u n if he is ur not so good friend then leave him b' coz if he is not bother about u then why should u taking care of him ok let him go ok tk cr friend
2006-11-15 15:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Nil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to resolve that issue with him or her..and if it dosnt work just say no more.. give him or her the space & time needed.. and if that person is a true friend him or her will come over there senses and forgive you
2006-11-15 14:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by clst_brown 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go up to ur friend and ask whats wrong and if ur friend still ignore u swrew it cuz u can find other friends.
2006-11-15 19:43:37 · answer #11 · answered by dorro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋