I expect to get some perverted answers to this, but here goes. When my boyfriend and I first got together I had no problem reaching orgasm with him. Now, a few months later, I can't seem to do it anymore. What happened? Is there something wrong with me? Its really frustrating.
2006-11-15 06:17:05 · 4 answers · asked by kittiesandsparklelythings 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There's absolutley nothing wrong with you. Maybe you just need a little more excitment. The same thing happened to me and I added some toys to our love-making. It really helped. Its so easy for guys so when they get comfortable they stop trying as much . Ask for a little extra attention to help you get there. Also, prolong the foreplay, this should help to bring you closer. Lastly, change positions a lot, this makes different area get "friction" so that everything is getting stimulated. Good luck!
2006-11-15 06:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not to try so hard...I know this may sound silly, but you don't have to reach orgasm each time in order to fill fullfilled. If you truly love the man you are with just being together should be exhilaration enough. I have been married several years, and to be quite honest I don;t always reach orgasm, but I don;t mind, because when I do, it is mind blowing. Just relax, and let whatever happens happen.
2006-11-15 15:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by lyfsavr67medic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... I know that when I have sex often and For days straight im having orgasms... that eventually I get a higher tolerance for them and it takes much more effort to get me there, and sometimes They arent as fantastic. So maybe back off on the sex for a week and see what happens. Good luck
2006-11-15 14:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur bored and need some new excitement or a new partner
2006-11-15 14:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋