ever feel like maybe you made a mistake and think maybe you missed out or feel like you want to cheat sometimes
2006-11-15 06:15:34 · 5 answers · asked by Lanie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I fit your description. However, I now have a serious problem and am in therapy. I have never cheated on my wife nor do I want to, but the urge to go do someone else is so intense it is disrupting my life.
I had a fairly attractive woman very openly hit on me at a restaurant today (a rare occurence) and holy smokes it took all my strength to not play along.
If you are feeling this same way you are not alone. Therapy will likely help you. If you don't address it, it will eat you up inside.
2006-11-15 06:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter in law I know felt this way a couple of years ago when she and my son where going through some rough times. Luckily they worked things out and are very happy once again and are raising my two granddaughters together. Luckily I have a very good and open relationship with my daughter in law and she can and does share whatever she wants with me on any subject. I love her and feel that she is the daughter I never had and she knows how much I think of her. Although some may see it as sad to have not a lot of experience prior to their marriage but many years ago that was the norm.
2006-11-15 14:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer lies in your question. Do faithfully married people in that situation get these feelings? Of course they do. Do HAPPILY married people in that situation get these feelings? I don't think so. If you have only been with one partner, and now you're having feelings of infidelity, perhaps you're having some marriage issues. Search your feelings for how you feel about your partner, and decide if you're unhappy about the number of people you have been with, or you're unhappy with the person you're with now.
2006-11-15 14:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by ksteven64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is usual to have the desire to cheat for a sex relation, men especially.
Now it is different if you want to cheat because you don't feel comfortable
with the person you share your life.
2006-11-15 14:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by patagonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could show u what u been missing
2006-11-15 14:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by nova_av 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋