He either doesn't listen or "mirrors" it back on me. For instance, when we were talking one day, I told him I didn't feel like he respected me. He, in turn said that I don't respect him. Today, I told him I had a job interview and after him saying "See, I told you, you were going to get a job today." he then said, "So, are you going to have time to pick up the girls." When I said no, he huffed and puffed, acted all mad. Which, in turn made ME mad. It's like he gives and then takes away. What the heck is up with that??? We are seperated, I moved out and am trying to work on our relationship. Somedays, I feel as though our marriage is a lost cause, while other days I feel like I need him in my life. He's a good guy, just sometimes sooo over-bearing and egotistical. Yikes, some advice please....
2006-11-15
06:05:15
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Erin
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(this is in response to Pearl) I left him to show him I could and would. (Since he once said I would be on welfare, living with Mommy, etc if I ever did leave him) I am trying to work on my marriage because I am not a quitter and believe in at least trying to make things work if I can.
2006-11-15
06:18:23 ·
update #1