Do you think that all guys are at least a little bit gay or secretly curious about being with another guy?
2006-11-15 05:37:03 · 25 answers · asked by JP 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well...if they do, I wish they'd let me know.
2006-11-17 10:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is flawed. I believe that there are degrees of interest in the same gender, for both men and women, the Kinsey scale, or whatever. If this is the case, then a "straight" male on that scale, would truly be "straight" and would have no thoughts about being with another male. However, there would be many varying degrees of bisexuality, meaning that all of the guys who were at all bisexual (even just curious) would have thoughts of being with a male.
I think you meant to ask: "Do guys who present themselves as straight secretly think about being with other guys?" I would say the answer is yes, as many bi or bi-curious guys present themselves as completely straight. However, I would argue that a truly straight guy would not secretly have thoughts of being with another guy. The issue, however, is that only the guy knows if he is truly straight or just presenting himself that way.
2006-11-15 06:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to Michael Bailey's research, only 2-3% of the male population is exclusively gay. Up to 6% have at least experimented, and 8.7% will admit to thinking about it.
So that means that straight guys do think about it; but whether it's a small proportion that do, or just a small proportion that will admit to it is another matter.
2006-11-15 09:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My own personal thoughts..... that we are bi-sexual innately. One way to tell if the idea turns on a guy is if "the lady doest protest too much". I mean if he openly condems gays then it secretly arouses him. Look at the priests and republicans out there.... the most antigay groups have the most gay scandals...lol...anyway i am not sure that most fantasize about other guys but yes maybe curious but afraid of the consequences.
2006-11-15 06:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since it's secretly I wouldn't know. I'm not supposed to know since it's secretive ;) Nah but seriously my best friend and I got drunk one night and basically he told me that he had always wondered what it was like to be with a guy. And mind you when he is sober he is the straightest guy you'll meet. He is your all around all american guy the grades, the girls and the sports... So yeah if he can secretively think about it than I can guarantee many other straight guys do as well.
2006-11-15 05:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Leelee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say virtually all straight guys have had the thought cross their minds. Maybe they acted upon it - or maybe they didn't but let's face reality:
Guys are so handome nowadays - and each generation is getting prettier & prettier. guys decades ago were not this handsome, they had rougher faces, more brutish features. But today's young guys are pretty-faced & cute. And more so with every passing year.
A man would have to be BLIND not to notice what I'm describing.
men exude a sexy charisma, and who wouldn't be curious about it??
So the answer is yes, and I can't say I blame them. Who wouldn't be curious ???
90% of straight women have kissed& played around with another woman at some point. But women lie & pretend to hide it. they are more sneaky & deceptive. But women love to go sweet on other women. they do it all behind closed doors but deny it in public.
I think any man with a sane mind could get turnedon by another guy. Not by every guy out there, mind you, but by cute, sweet, pretty-faced nice young guys.
YES-SIR!!!!
2006-11-15 05:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by blackbird 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Straight guys get to the hairy a$$ part of the equation and avoid that conversation and thought at all costs.
Most people probably THINK about it in their own mind from both genders...and morality kicks in, which ever way it takes you.
Straight guys DO talk about if they were women that they WOULD "probably be lesbians".
2006-11-15 05:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Randal D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I consider myself a straight male, having been happily married for a number of years. But I admit, sometimes I fantasize of pleasing another male orally. And there are ALOT of men who are curious in the same way, whether they admit it or not! My wife is cool with this and she even whispers sweet kinky things in my ear when we're intimate...wow does that work!
2006-11-15 23:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm happily married and sexually attracted to my wife. But I do have a friend from high school days (1980s) that I have harbored a secret crush on for years. I have dreams about kissing him.
2006-11-15 06:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by itsnotarealname 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, the majority of staight men probably shudder at the thought. Some may range from slightly curious to more so, but that would be a minority of the sample set.
2006-11-15 05:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋