I want to break up my friend and her boyfriend because he is just using her for sex and I know that. How can I do it?
2006-11-15 05:29:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would jsut talk to the girl and tell her what i think is going on between them and let her decide if she wants to break up with him or not because if you cause a break up and your freind finds out she might be angry with you!
2006-11-15 07:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright. You cannot directly break up your friend and her boyfriend- because this would make you the middle man and the middle man never wins- they will both hate you.
But, what you CAN do, is very discretely show her clues that he is using her for sex. You can show her OBVIOUS clues but you must do it VERY discretely. NEVER tell her you want her to break up with him....she has to decide this herself- but you want to help her decide to do this.
You can also start pointing out other couples- other healthy relationships or even other single guys that you friend could have a chance with.
Sometimes when you are stuck in a bad relationship, its all you know and you dont even realize whats going on....once she sees other happy couples, she may start to change her mind...
Then, when she is ready to do it, send her this article:
http://wehow.ehow.com/how_2003063_execute-easy-breakup.html
2006-11-16 03:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by want2knowsoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't do either one, you should talk to her about it.. Good friends don't break up their best friends.. You should be there for her and help look out for her but doing what you want to do is just way too far!! Sit her down and be honest with her if you feel this strong that hes using her like that, then sit her butt down and tell the girl.. Explain to her that you love her and don't want to see her hurt or being used...
2006-11-15 05:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by jaden4231980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you ARE joking??? GROW UP!!! Who the heck are you to say you want to break up your friend and her boyfriend?? You are NO friend to her if that's what you're going to do. How do you KNOW he's using her, hmm??? Are you sure you're not just jealous because she has a relationship?
You are not God, nor are you her Dictator. You have NO right to treat your friend like that.
2006-11-15 05:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Heather T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your friend about what you know and then allow her to decide how to handle it. It's really not up to you to break them up it's up to her to do as she wants to do as far as her relationship goes with him. Even being a close friend there are boundaries you don't cross. Otherwise you might just lose your friend completely.
2006-11-15 05:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you know. If she chooses to believe it then she'll most likely leave on her own doing and if she doesn't, at least you tried and now it is solely her fault if she stays having the knowledge that this guy's intentions with her are not good. Take care and good luck:)
2006-11-15 05:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to judge your friend, why would you want to see her hurt and misable? She has to be the one to end the relationship. If you truly care about her just be there when she realize the truth; that's a true friend.
2006-11-15 05:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by aprayer4u2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
create a fake email address and send her an email saying that u are another girl sleeping with her boyfriend and you want her to back off.
2006-11-15 05:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your friend ask you to do this? or are you just saying that you know better than them and so it is your right. because I have news for you Your ex friend will not ever thank you
2006-11-15 05:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont u try telling her and let her know and try 2 prove it 2 her other wise u well lose her as ur friend if she found out that u did that...
2006-11-15 05:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by justen_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋