2006-11-15 05:28:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do not say yes. you may hurt her but she willbe more hurt and embarressed when she finds out that you dont care for her that way , and you just said yes because you were afraid to hurt her. she will be hurt at first , thats a givin but she will be fine, its better than being with someone that does not care for you. that will hurt a 1000 times more
2006-11-15 05:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel there is no other way from being straight...see somethings are there in life..when u have to face the reality i believe...so either or the other way...u gotta tell her the truth...be polite..just give her the answer...really don't give her any fake answers cause what you are calling hurt today would be less in compare to when u say an inappropriate yes and fake with her for some days and end up messing on....
so courage up and tell her very politely that you really don't see her that way..or u are concentrating more on Ur career now...would definitely keep her as a friend and see what the future predicts...
2006-11-15 06:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must say something like that: I am sorry, but I do not want to involve into a relationship as this you are proposing. I had been hardly from my last broke up! I will keep this in my mind!
2006-11-15 05:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey good question! well, listen to her very carefully when she speaks to you. don reject the offer in negative words, but be polite and convince her that if the both of you were bonded in a relationship, you'l probably loose out being good friends and look to each other as responsibilities! say politely that you can be friends with her and share the whole universe and enjoy the togetherness to its fullest! please watch your words when you say NO!
2006-11-15 05:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by i'm the best!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get to the point that she proposes and you don't even "like" her????
You must be sending out a lot of mixed signals, buddy!
2006-11-15 05:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth, it will set you free. Just be very delicate about it and even get other people's advise on how say say it in the best way.
2006-11-15 05:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her ASAP that you don't like her. The longer you wait to be honest with her the more it will hurt her, so it's best to be truthful from the start.
2006-11-15 05:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so mohit in demand ha its ok yaar actully i faced a same prob ok but that time i love another girl to maine use boldiya mamu k main kohi aur ladki se pyar karta hu but ur prob is different then tu usko bolne ka k bhan main abhi apna carrer bana raha hu aur main apne ma aur baap ne sochi huyi ladki se hi shadi karunga thik hai na bol bol are bol na mamu ok thik se rahane ka khane ka pine ka aur mast masti karne ka chalo gud nite
2006-11-15 07:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Nil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER STRAIGHT FORWARD, FRANKLY.
there is no place for a lie in a good friendship.
you do anything else and chances that you'll hurt her more increases.
you lost love, better don't loose a friend.
2006-11-15 05:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by ritesh m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore and tell her as early as possible. The longer it takes the more it is painful and she will be hoping. Stop entertaining so she wont expect.
2006-11-15 05:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋