please help me i dont no what to do because im scared and shes really destroying me :(
2006-11-15 05:27:48 · 19 answers · asked by x_adorabelle_mee_x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her you don't like the way she treats you and you don't want her bullying you around anymore. If she doesn't stop bullying you she isn't a true friend.
2006-11-15 05:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is not your friend if she is bullying you, she is nothing but a coward. The only way to get her to stop is to stand up for yourself and show her that you are not scared, if you do that hopefully she will leave you only. But you are going to have to be strong. Also other things that you can do is avoid her if you see her turn and go in the opposite direction, and always make sure that you are with a crowd of people, she won't bully you then. Also why don't you tell your parents or a teacher about it, and see if they can help you
2006-11-15 16:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is bullying you, she is not your friend.
What kind of bullying. If it is emotional tell her you don't want to talk to her anymore and will have nothing to do with her and then insult her back if she insults you.
If it is physical then punch her back.
Either way the only way you will ever learn to stand up for yourself and not be such a whiny wimp (emotional or physical) is to take a stand. If that means cursing her out in public then so be it, if that means getting in a fight and possibly (even if you do lose if you get some good shots in she will leave you alone) getting your *** kicked, well that just makes you an adult.
2006-11-15 13:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a friend is bullying you than she isn't your friend. Don't let what she says get to you. If you let it get to you your only giving her the satisfaction of seeing you defeated. Stand up to her. Tell her your not going to take it anymore and that friend's don't bully friends. Don't be friends with her for as long as it takes until she apologizes. Don't be scared to stand up to her. It might surprise her when her 'prey' bites back. Just don't bully her back because you'll fall to her level. Good luck!
2006-11-15 13:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by dartzallmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she thinks it's fair that she can say or do whatever makes you upset. Ask her what action she would have taken if you had said or done the same things as she has done to you. Friends aren't horrible to each other, people that are horrible only want to use you to further themselves or make themselves feel better in front of other people. Would she have done whatever she did if there were only two of you in a room, possibly not because there was no one else to show off to.
2006-11-15 13:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by grammers57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to put shyness aside take it from some1 who knows. She cant really be a very good friend if she is bullying you but you need to tell her out right that what she is saying is hurting you and that you've had enough of her crap and that unless she stops you cant continue on in your friendship with her. Say it with force so she understands that you're serious if she says sorry dont imediatly forgive her tlk it out with her .
Good luck ; )
2006-11-15 16:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Genipher17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all this girl isnt your friend if she is bulling you.
ignore her and stay out of her way as best as you can. i used to be bullied when i was at school so i know that can be hard to do.
tell an adult what she is doing. and how you feel.
or as a last resort be really nice to her (even if you dont mean it) coz everyone loves compliments. just say stuff like "i love how you have your hair today how did you do it?" and "wow your shoes are really nice, where did you get them from" that kinda thing. it will confuse her coz your being so nice to her
2006-11-15 13:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she isnt a friend and she is probaly doing this as she feels crap about herself and it is the only way to make her feel better.
Stand up for yourself because if you dont do it now then people will walk all over you for the rest of your life. You might be scared doing it but just be firm and tell her to get to ****.
Good luck :-)
2006-11-15 16:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello YOU SHOULD NEVER LET NO ONE DISTROY YOU ....IF YOU FEEL THAT WAY THE BEST THING TO DO IS STAY AWAY FROM HER...NO ONE HAS THE POWER TO DISTROY YOU LOOK AT YOUR SELF WITHIN YOUR SELF AND TELL YOUR SELF YOU ARE AN IMPORTANT PERSON AND ALL YOU WILL EXSEPT IN YOUR LIFE IS LOVE AND KINDNESS...GET RID OF HER STAY AWAY FROM HER AND DO NOT BE SHY TO DO THAT YOU WILL FEEL MUCH BETTER AND LIVE IN PEACE IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A NEGATIVE PERSON TRYING TO DISTROY YOU...REMEMBER STICK ARROUND GOOD POSITIVE PEOPLE NEGATIVE WILL ONLY BRING YOU DOWN ...AND ONLY YOU YOUR SELF CAN EITHER ALLOW THIS PERSON IN YOUR LIFE SO YOU YOURSELF IS GONNA HAVE TO STAND UP AND IGNORE STAY AWAY FROM HER OR SHE WILL CONTINUE WHAT SHE IS DOING,,,TAKE CARE
2006-11-15 13:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wel if you are getting bullied by your friends they arn't really your friends then are they you need to stand up to them and if you feel you can't stand up to them then tell a person you can trust maybe they can help i.e teacher, mum dad or another friend
2006-11-16 03:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by beci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋