So I was dating this girl...we were (are) in love...her mom found out we were dating..thought she was too young..im 29..shes 22...forbid her from seeing me (or anyone) until she is 26 or 27. we hung out on the down-low for a while. parents went nutzo. hired a private investigator...came to see us. knew about all of our plans. finally came out with the truth..her best friend has been feeding the mom information. what would you do? best friend thinks everything is entirely over. hate her for being a rat. would you confront the friend? cant see gf anymore due to limitations...
2006-11-15 05:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cant call her the best friend anymore because she did something that wasn't in the best interest of "the girl", which i hope was to be happy. Every guy knows that the girlfriends best friend secretly wants to be wants to be the "girlfriend". It is part envy, part jealously, and part self-loathing. Something tells me she is not hot, the friend... unfortunately only time is going to separate them and not ur influence. No need to try and win her over (the friend) it's like being nice to a scorpion, no matter what it still has to sting you. It's natural for them. Btw, see if you can set up some 1/2 day getaways, about once a month to see ur girl. Just not too far away from home. k?
2006-11-15 05:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by saavydaddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody who pulls a stunt like that is no friend of yours. If this person were really a friend, then she would have kept her nose out of where it doesn't belong. Sounds as if she did it out of jealousy or spite- after all, one can't be more rotten than that. I had a guy at a former workplace backstab me in a very similar manner after I picked out someone else to hang with one afternoon. (Although, he didn't hire the private investigator due to lack of money.)
2006-11-15 05:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both too old for family to be interferring on this level. Unless the girl is a special needs retard, she need to get a backbone and learn how to stand on her own two feet instead of letting Mommy and Daddy make her decisions. As to Tattle Tale Tatum, I would tell her one more SECRET, like something she'll run back and tell, but will be a lie and she will look like a fool for telling it. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....like your gf is planning on going to the mall to get her Mum a present for taking "such good care of her" and instead elope with honey girl. Hows that? Just a thought! Besides, rats always find their own level.
2006-11-15 05:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does a 22 years old mother get to run someone life. Tell g/f to get a spine and tell mother girl were to get off. I don't see where your to old for old gutless. If you two what to be together, then do just that, there not a law in the world that would do anything about it. as far as the best friend goes tell gutless to find a new one, maybe one that could encourage her to grow-up and tell mom where to step off.
2006-11-15 05:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where the hell do you live that a person over 21 years old can't come and go as they please? Elope with the girl and dump the friend. She's jealous! If you love this woman, take her away from this controlling situation. godloveya.
2006-11-15 05:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What??? Your girlfriend is over 18. She's even over 21. Why can't you two date? And her friend needs to mind her own business.
2006-11-15 05:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are old enough to do whatever you want her parents shouldnt be getting involved.. if you really love her then just marry her and tell her friend to mind her own business shes probably just jealous.
2006-11-15 05:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ashly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was a major b i t c h of a bf but still it is not ur place to tell her off no matter how upset ur are imagine of ur gf must feel right now
2006-11-15 05:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋