A woman marries her high school sweetheart after being married for about 2 years she gets pregnant by a man she is having affair with, her husband forgives her of the affair and gives the baby girl his last name, they continue on being married but the wife is still cheating, she gets pregnant again with a son and this child was actually concieved with her husband, 2 years later she leaves her husband for a man she thought had alot of money and collects childsupport and health insurance for both children without question from her X, she remains married for 10 years to this man and decides to divorce him so that she can get allimony from him, she works herself at a daycare center making less then minimum wage because of her being paid over 12 months for 9 months of work, she draws goverment assistance due to her low income, because she does not have to report child support or allimony for repayment of any bills, and thru all of this she claims to be a christian, What is your opinion??
2006-11-15 05:15:00 · 11 answers · asked by mom2many 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She could be a Christian....that is not for US to JUDGE!!! Only God is the judge. She made a lot of bad decisions and hurt a lot of people. She will, one day, be held accountable for all that she has done. She will have to answer to a great and mighty being.....GOD!!!!
2006-11-15 05:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably never ask her out!
What is the definition of a "Christian"? If she believes that Jesus Christ is the Son of God then she is a Christian!
What does being "Christian" have to do with her poor choices in life and the fact that she is a lowlife? Christ came for the sinners so she probably qualifies!
To each their own! Just my opinion!
2006-11-15 13:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can be Christian, but that does not mean they live it. I've found that most people use it or any religion as a front, having no clue what it really means. We are not supposed to judge though. We do not know every detail.
2006-11-15 13:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Local Celebrity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,...first of all, it seems easy to judge others than ourself. Obviously as a man, she sounds like the hell itself.
But, look at people in the Bible, who made poor choices, and yes were still forgiven. Like paul who killed Christians, and Moses who killed an egyptian or Jacob, who stole his brothers blessing, or David who stole someones wife and had him murdered or Noah who was a drunk, or the woman at the well who had many husbands or Mary Magdeline who was caught in adultery. Yet God still loved them. That isn't to say that they did not suffer for those sins. God repays...according to our deeds. So, what is the difference? Some come to that place of repentence like those listed in the Bible...
Remember the parable about the pharisse and the tax collector in the temple. A Pharise was a religious priest in those days and a tax collector is like the IRS guy, but worse becuase he sold out his countrymen to the Roman government. Anyways, it goes like this the Pharise and tax collector go into the temple and the pharise prays to God thanking him that he isn't like the tax collector because of how righteous he was in his own righteousness...The tax collector abhored by his own sin said in his heart to God please forgive me. Who walked away forgiven? the tax collector. Moral of the story, be careful of your own righteousness,...do not judge lest you be judged, the measure you pour out is the measure you receive. Lucky us, we don't have to judge, we have to forgive and be forgiven.
That isn't to say that someone who continues to sin on purpose will be forgiven. But we don't judge...we pray for that person and maybe explain to them so they understand what they are doing is harming other people...But not to condemn...The devil is the tempter, accuser and condemner of mankind.
2006-11-15 13:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by TAHOE REALTOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what's wrong with this effed up world today!!! Nobody gives a damn about hurting other people!! And everybody wonders why so many people are crazy and kill other people!! The government is messed up for giving people money that doesn't need it and not helping the people that do!!
2006-11-15 13:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kristin K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's asked God to forgive her of her sins, she's no Christian if she's living her life like that.
I think it's really sad that people think that the grass is always greener on the other side, and then it just causes more problems and people don't think things through. People need to stop thinking of themselves and think more of their husbands and wives, before themselves. Also they need to think of their children before themselves also.
2006-11-15 13:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows how to play the system and yes she could be a Christian now
2006-11-15 13:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
iShe has twisted the letter of the law to her advantage.
Many Christians twist the words on the Bible to their advantage.
Yup, it makes sense, but its still not right in my opinion.
2006-11-15 14:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That shes f*@% NUTS. And my opinion is she is not near the christian side!!!
2006-11-15 13:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't turn a ho into a housewife!
2006-11-15 13:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by 10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋