7weeks pregnant...?

Question

What exactly should I be feeling at the moment? I'm scared to do anything and at the first sign of pain I freak out... I'm not sure what symptoms I should have.. what is normal.. what isn't normal.. any other mommys in my situation? The doctor just laughs at me and tells me everything is normal.. still I want to know what everyone else is going through.

Thank you.

Answer 1

Get a book about pregnancy, like "What to Expect When You're Expecting" or one of those week-to-week pregnancy books. They seriously list every single thing you could possibly worry about. Congrats on your pregnancy!

Answer 2

Concerning pregnancy there is no such thing as normal. They're all individual. That makes nothing and everything normal. I know exactly how you feel though. I just went through it myself carrying twins. I miscarried last month at 10.5 weeks. Now, don't let that scare you. There were other factors invovled. But take it from a woman that panicked everyday of every pregnancy...you're making it worse. Don't read these boards. Don't read internet sites. They'll give you more to worry about. Get the book (or check it out from the library) What to expect when you're expecting. It totally eased my nerves. It's very indepth and it helps a lot. I can tell you at 7 weeks, I didn't feel very much. A little nausea, tender breasts and fatigue is about it. I've been pregnant three times...none of them were the same. The little pains and twinges are just your uterus stretching. Cramping like your cycle is going to start is very common also. Round ligament pain. Lower back aches. All common. You'll feel little twinges and pulls often. Try not to worry unless it's unbearable cramping, spotting ANY amount of blood.

Answer 3

Hmm, sick to your stomach, headaches, breasts tender (or just plain HURT), tired and probably some pain in abdomin. The pain should feel more like a pulled muscle than a cramp. I was there too, but this is my second time around now and it gets easier. Relax! Anything you did before you were pregnant (except the obvious things like drink/drugs) you can still do, especially for now. A few things like hot tubs, sauna's, carnival rides and dangerous sports (rock climbing, etc) shouldn't be done, but a lot of women do them at just 7 weeks (because they don't know they are pregnant) and everything turns out fine! Your doctor will update you on the things you cant do and when. Get the book "What to Expect When You're Expecting", it's GREAT for first time moms! It will answer all your questions! Good Luck!

Answer 4

First, calm down. Not only for yourself, but for your little one, having said that, I do realize, having gone through a difficult pg after a earlier miscarriage, I know that is allot easier said than done. Normally, if the Dr says to relax then do so, because trust me, if there is something to worry about your Dr will be upfront with you. You are probably experiencing the normal pains that come in this stage, it is your body acknowledging the pregnancy and starting to stretch and grow and change in all the ways necessary to carry to term. It truly is amazing what our bodies go through. Also, don't hesitate to ask every question and discuss every topic that you are concerned about with your Dr. Every pregnancy is different, even in the same woman, so if the Dr says not to worry then just try to focus on getting the vitamins and rest that you need right now. Congratulations!

Answer 5

It's normal to worry about every little ache and pain. But you really don't need to call your Dr. unless you experience bleeding or pain that lasts for a day or more.

Soon you will start experiencing pain in your pelvis called round ligament pain... it's just your ligaments and tendons stretching and getting ready for what your body will go thru. It's perfectly natural and doesn't last too long.

Just make sure to drink enough water, take your prenatal vitamins and eat well. If you don't feel well (tired, achy, pains) don't be afraid to sit down and rest. People will/ should understand. And don't be afraid to call your Dr. because he laughs at you. It's better to ask the question than not.

Answer 6

Lots of different things can happen. Cramping similar to menstrual cramps are normal, back pain, nausea/vomiting, loss of appetite (or opposite), food aversions, or cravings, extreme fatigue. All through your pregnancy you will feel little twinges and "growing pains. These are completely normal. Any pain that is excruciating, or bright red blood are both signs of either miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy (pregnancy located outside the uterus), which are emergencies and need to be treated immediately.

The doctor should not be laughing at you. He or she needs to understand and be sensitive to the fact that this is your first pregnancy, and you don't know what to expect. I'd say something at the next visit.

Anyway, congratulations and good luck.

Answer 7

I'm 10 weeks and i really don't know either. If i'm supposed to be showing yet or if i eat well enough if i'm eating to much. I think even my prenatal pills are making me sick. I don't have insurance just yet but i went to my first prenatal exam and paid $165 bucks for a diaper bag some samples of prenatals and alot of reading they didn't even tell me if i was pregnant or not. Just told me when the baby should be due and how far along i was. All the do's and dont's and what was worse i went by myself so i didn't know all the questions to ask. I know right now though that stress is my number one enemy. I can't stress myself out about things like will i have enough money, what about insurance, is my dog gonna hurt my baby, can i lift this heavy box, can i clean the cat box or should i do it any ways its dirty and no one else will clean it. Ask for help if you need and talking things out really helps everything else will happen naturally. With the babys growth will come solice and peace you have to treat your mind body and soul with patience first though for your little one to grow.

Answer 8

I know someone that recently miscarried and when I found out that I was pregnant I was so scared too. This is my 2nd baby and I'm 10 weeks pregnant. I had an ultrasound at 8 weeks that eased my mind because I got to see my baby's heart beating. I am still a little worried but if I start to feel any soreness or cramping I lay down. It doesn't really help much to worry too much. As long as your hormone levels are good you really shouldn't worry all that much. Good Luck!

Answer 9

Pain during pregnancy is normal and expected. Cramps, pulling, searing pain, pinching, tightness... all these things are normal as the uterus stretches and grows.

You have to stay active in order to stayhealthy for you and the baby. Its important to walk, move and go about daily life as contented and calm as possible.

Any pain that doesnt go away after laying down for 20 minutes and drinking a glass of water, severe cramps that cause you to double over- and dont go away and are followed by colored discharge, heavy bleeding, fever, and more than 6 contractions in an hour are all cause for concern.

Period like cramps that are even painful enough to make you think you're going to start your period, or make you want to take pain killer, are normal for your stage of pregnancy.

Get used to the pains, you're going to have them everywhere for the next 7 months.

Answer 10

Relax. Take a childbirth class. Learn everything you need to know; whats normal; whats not; what to worry about.

Go to Bradleybirth.com and find a local instructor. The support you will find in these classes is incredible. The teachers are very knowledgeable.

Remember to stay low risk by continued exercise, eating healthy, well balanced meals and educating yourself about what is happening to your body and your baby.

Ultrasounds are not proven to be 100% safe and should be used sparingly and as a diagnostic tool in cases where the health of your baby may be in question.

Answer 11

While every pregnancy is different in some way or another, most are generally the same. Read some of the other posts but don't get too caught up in how you should or shouldn't feel. Be excited. Pregancy can be scary, so you don't want to look back at it and only remember being scared and anxious. DO NOT GET CAUGHT UP READING OTHER PEOPLE'S HORROR STORIES! Congrats!