what to wear??

Question

i'm going to meet an ex boyfriend i'm now married with a baby and dont want to turn up looking crap i want him to think i'm still nice looking and not thank god i finished with her my hubbys fine with it as he knows i love him its just kind of look what you let get away thing. any ideas??

i've probably put it wrong i just want to look nice really he was an important person in my life i've gone out with him and my husband and he was my first everything and has a special place in my heart so i just want to look good.

Answer 1

I actually know how you feel. 3 months after my son was born, I had to see an ex about a business matter, and all I could think about was the baby fat I hadn't got rid of yet :-)

Since you didn't give any specific details, I'm just going to give some general outfits that could work for most situations.
I would start with a casual pant that isn't too dressy or professional. Try a twill or knit that goes will with anything, and in color/style that would flatter your shape. The fabric will move well with your body, and wouldn't add any unwanted bulk to potential problem areas. Stay away from any stretchy fabrics that could emphasis those same "bad" areas. Make sure they have a flat front (no big pockets, pleats, or heavy detailing) so you aren't adding bulk to your waist, hips, and thighs, which usually aren't your best feature after kids.
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Then throw a jacket over a knit top to help hide any "baby belly" that you might have left over. Then you can button (or leave it open) depending on the impression you want to make. Buttoned is more mature and professional while unbuttoned is more casual and laid back.
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Finish off the look with a great pair of boots. It gives you a longer, leaner leg line without cutting your leg in two the way a pair of heels does. It doesn't matter how tall the boot shaft is as long as the hem of your pants covers it, a low boot can work as well as a calf or knee high one. But if you aren't used to heels, or haven't worn them in a while, stick with a lower or wider one instead of a stiletto.
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But most of all, be confident, be yourself, and let him see how happy you are without him in your life. You don't want to come across like "Don't you want me back?" You want "Don't you wish you still had me?"

Answer 2

Haha, coming from someone who ha shad a lot of practise at making ex boyfriends regret things, the best way is the simplest way.

Don't go over the top.
+ Wear makeup if you have tpo, but try to keep it looking natural, clear mascara, touch of blush, clear/light pink gloss.
+ Tie your hair up if it's long, in a straight, no-nonsense ponytail to keep it out of the way (there's nothnig worse than long hair getting stuck to lipgloss)
+ Wear something you feel comfortable in and know you look cute in. Maybe something like a pair of jeans and a simple black top?

you want to look as if you're naturally beautiful, not as if you're only looking good cos you're dolled up. Whatever you wear, however your hair or makeup is, the most important thing is that you smile.

People tend to find each other more attractive when they're smiling. It'll bring a certain glow to you =)

Answer 3

That is a tought one. It would really depend on where you are going. I would think that a cute flowing skirt strappy high heels and a nice top to match the shirt. Make sure your hair is freshly hi-lighted or dyed and wear your favorite make-up. Don't try too many new things besides new clothes. You may not like something new after wearing it for a little while. Accent your best features. Remember why he found you attractive in the first place and renew that. That should make him think,"Wow! She still has it!"

Answer 4

umm, dress like someone who is a respectable wife and mother who loves her family and not like someone who is out to impress an ex-boyfriend.
if you're really set on making him regret what he let get away (and that's kind of mean, really, isn't it? If you're happy with your new life, why on earth would you hope that he's upset you got away?) the best way to show that you were a great catch is to act and dress like you are a great catch FOR THE PERSON WHO CAUGHT YOU.
If you dress to impress the ex, he's only going to think "ho must be unhappy with her husband and needs to look good for me"
If you dress like you're a happily married women, he'll think "everything must be right in her life--she's obviously in and contributes to a happy environment"

I'm sorry, but no matter the reason, you're asking for trouble if you're trying to impress an ex-boyfriend. Look happy and successful by wearing tailored and moderate but still trendy clothes.

Answer 5

Just wear a casual outfit you have gotten a compliment on before. The best thing you can wear is the happiness you feel with the decision you made in hubby. That will outshine anything you wear.

Answer 6

how about jeans boots and a cute black top with some beads or soemthing? that way you'll look natually chic, fresh and pretty to show that you're doing well and loving life and don't need to make an effort on purpose!

Answer 7

Id wear something covering you except maybe the legs but to flatter yourself it could be rather form-fitting something dark would work for this time of year

Answer 8

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Answer 9

river island! they do everything! smart? casual? anyway im sure you don't need to dress up, because your ex wouldnt hav gone out with you in the first place if he didnt like the way you are! x

Answer 10

i would wear something compleetly stunning and high class so it makes him sit up and take notice
the message you are sending out is

LOOK WHAT YOU GAVE UP YOU COULD HAVE HAD ALL OF THIS BUT OH NO YOU CHOSE SOMEONE ELSE

You go for it girl...........you never know !!! x x x x