Why do alot of expecting people here .............?

Question

Say "me and my boyfriend" or "me and my girlfriend" instead of my husband or wife? I know don't judge anyone, but doesn't anyone use birth control or get married anymore?

Answer 1

Shhh! Don't speak so loudly, someone might hear you and get offended...

Answer 2

Who are you to tell anyone what they should do with their own lives. Do you realize some people actually don't want to get married?!?! Wow, a horrid thought, right. And you're in no place to tell someone who's in a committed relationship that they cannot have children. That is strictly based on religion and you don't have any say in that.

I personally am engaged and my fiance and I have a 10 month old daughter. Our relationship is probably more stable than a lot of marriages, anyhow.

A piece of paper means nothing. And, as you know, over half of marriages end in divorce. I'd rather wait than have to get divorced because I did what society expected of me.

Answer 3

the rate of divorce is so high, people are too pesimistic to get married. why would you get married if after five years your partner runs off with someone else, taking half your estate and all of your pride.
2 of my best friends from school have recently had children at the age of 21, which is great, but neither are financially secure. i think there is too much emphasis on the transition between adoleshance and adulthood in the media, 18 year olds with genital flashing tendancies. i think my friends thought they were too old to achieve somthing in life and thought babies would make them happy, which it probably will, but they could have achieved anything..

Answer 4

They are on here asking other people because they are irresponsible. They wouldn't be on here asking such serious questions to strangers if they were responsible. They would be asking a DOCTOR instead.

Answer 5

Isn't there anything else you wanted to know about.