BRIEFLY,...(But....you happened to notice...your acquaintance was doing something....SO YOU DECIDE TO STOP RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR SENTENCE....AND THE OTHER PERSON does NOT even notice that you have STOPPED???? why wasn't the person listening first of all and you figured it out she IS NOT A FRIEND...????( I was appalled by her behavior!)///she ASKS ME????SHE JUST CONTINUED ON with her business!!! DO YOU FEEL IT WAS RUDE OF HER?
2006-11-15 02:45:32 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is rude, and it´s makes me nuts. That is happening all the time with some persons, so I´m trying only to star answering with few words, and peacefully wait for another question. It is crazy, but I have to it, to protect myself of nervousness.
2006-11-15 03:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Latica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't about her not being a friend, it's about her not really wanting an answer, even tho she asked. A lot of ppl really only need to talk out loud, and have a caring person listen. We have our own answers inside, and sometimes we can come up with our own answers when we hear ourselves talk about the situation. Be a friend to your friend and just listen. If she really really needs an answer to whatever she is saying, then she'll stop and listen to you. Otherwise, let her go on and on, she'll either feel better for having gotten it off her chest or she'll find her own answer. And feel better for having a friend who cares enuff to just listen.. and not try to 'fix' her.
Myst
2006-11-15 11:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Myst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I hate that!....that would be what I call...(for lack of better words) SELF CENTERED and not caring! Psycho babbling is a great term for this. UGH! Pet peeve I have. Very disrespectful and annoying at the same time. They ask the question so they can hear themselves talk....I had a true friend do this to me before.....I handled it like this.....
I waited till she was done with her tangent.....REMAINED silent (sighing and eye rolling)and for the long waited moment for her to ask me....Why aren't you saying anything? What's wrong with you?
My reply was this...........
Are you wanting me to tell you how I really feel OR what you want to hear?.....silence..........THEN if you REALLY want to hear me you NEED to STFU so I can answer otherwise I do NOT want to hear your crap!!!! She NEVER did that again and when she slipped up butting in....I got louder...LOL....POWER TRIP!!!!!
OH it bothers me! GET HER!!!! I'll cheerlead you.....
2006-11-15 11:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your answer was going in a direction she wasn't interested in.
She did want a lot of people would probably want to do in that situation...except your friend was being rude.
2006-11-15 10:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uuummmm, yeah! if it pi**es u off so much u shud tell her, maybe she doesnt know that that kind of thing anoys u...sum ppl do that alot... I understand why ur annoyed but try asking her why, if she denies it then remind her. If she apologises accept it, if she doesnt, thatn what kind of a friend is she anyways?
2006-11-15 10:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very irritating. My sister in - law and her whole family do this. It's pointless to try and hold a conversation with them. Now that you have mentioned it her friends are the same way. UUGGHH!!!!
2006-11-15 10:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by CuervoBMed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is rude, I hate when people do that! You you even ask is you don;t listen to the anwser! duh
2006-11-15 10:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋