well my mom thinks that i like girl because i always defend the gay people and my mom ask me to tell her that i dont that i like boys what should i do about that
2006-11-15 02:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well do you like girls or boys tell her the truth. and if you are confused she can help you with it, and if you are gay tell her now rather than have to deal with it years down the road
2006-11-15 02:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Your mom obviously thinks she has discovered a secret you are keeping from her and apparently her parenting strategy is to try and make you confess. If you wanted you could just say yes and she'd probably leave you alone.
I had the same problem when I was younger. My parents thought I liked boys (I kinda do but I didn't know that then). For months they harassed me about it and I actually got grounded for a month because they thought I was lying about it.
What I did to change that was to be seen more often hanging out with girls. All you really need to do is getting caught holding hands with a boy or kissing a boy or soemthing like that--not hard to do.
2006-11-15 10:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by AJ F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, my mom is the same way....no matter what you say she is still going to think you are gay, so just keep telling her the truth. My mom thinks that both me and my sis are gay and now that I have a boyfriend she thinks I am bi. It really doesn't matter what she thinks.
2006-11-15 10:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by zorroinmybed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you are too young and inexperienced to care right now. And that not accepting discrimination and hated does not make you gay or straight. It makes you a good person.
2006-11-15 10:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her think what she will. When you are ready, and when you know for sure and am absolutely sure you want to spill the beans, then you will. Relax! Focus on your studies! Perhaps she might think that you are a caring person who tries to see all sides of the human condition and am trying to love everyone!
2006-11-15 11:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her think that. she will see in time that you like boys if thats the case. explain that just because you are open minded and support gay people doesnt mean you are gay. go on with your life.
2006-11-15 12:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by U2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what people think. Like who you want to like. She'll draw her own conclusions no matter what you do.
Don't make any bad decisions trying to prove something to her.
She's just being a little nosy because she loves you and is concerned for you. You really don't need to do anything about it.
2006-11-15 10:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST WITH HER. IF YOU ARE NOT INTO GIRLS, THEN TELL HER AND IF YOU ARE, WILL IT IS A HARD TALK TO HAVE, BUT YOUR MOM WILL STILL BE THERE FOR YOU. I KNOW MY DAUGHTER CAME TO ME AND SAID SHE WAS HAVING CONFUSING THOUGHTS. WE TALKED IT OVER AND SHE FEELS THE WEIGHT OF THE WORLD LEFTED OFF OF HER. SEE WE ARE CHRISTIAN AND SHE JUST KNEW I WOULD HATE HER.
2006-11-15 10:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by baptism_by_fire_2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are straight just tell her "Mom, I am Straight, I like boys. I just don't think anyone should be discriminated against or treated differently for who they are. "
2006-11-15 10:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Alexis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should be honest with her, tell the true if you like girls instead of boys that's your business and there's nothing she can do to change that.
2006-11-15 10:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋