i'm hoping only girls will answer this cuz i relate more to girls and it's kinda how girls feel. anyways, if you read my profile it will tell you about me. so, my best girlfriend fixed me up with this really cute guy and we're going to the movies. i'm excited but kinda nervous. yea, he's gay and really shy which kinda makes him cute, ya know. anyways, it's my first date. please don't laugh, but should i kiss him if he doesn't kiss me. thanks so much :)
2006-11-15 02:34:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sorry, i guess i kinda goofed. he's bi so i'm hoping that makes a difference.
2006-11-15 03:36:40 · update #1
If he leans towards you lean in and kiss him. If he doesnt when your getting ready to part kiss him on the cheek and tell him you had a great time.
2006-11-16 05:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by .:AMIZZLE:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess no one read your profile, what ever... I think that you should not kiss on the first date. I think you can still have that tension and attraction without making that first move. Let him know you are interested but you are just not that kind of woman... Making someone wait will have them respect you more. Also you don't even know if you will click with him yet....
2006-11-15 17:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is gay than he will not want a kiss... sorry hon, but I would not even count this as a date. A gay guy is not interested in you for more than friends, no matter how cute you think he is.
2006-11-15 10:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to generalise here, but gay guys like to have friends who are girls. Have you heard the (harsh) term "fag hag"? He probably wants to be best mates with you and nothing more. He sees it as a platonic trip with his gal pal. Go see the movie "Clueless" because your post reminds me of part of that movie.
2006-11-15 10:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it depends on how things progress on the first date. My very first date led to sex at a public park.
2006-11-15 17:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really post this in the relationships and dating catagory! This is the gay and lesbian section! Good luck on your date!
2006-11-15 11:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how is that possible for u to date a GAY guy?.. i dont think u will get a positive reaction if u kiss him.
2006-11-15 11:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by mia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should. I think you should let him kiss you.
2006-11-15 10:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good luck with the date!
2006-11-15 11:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you kiss him? You know where his mouth has been, right?
2006-11-15 10:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by jinenglish68 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋