this girl is claiming to be pregnant by my boyfriend it was before we were together officialy and everyone knows shes been wit his brother and other people too she will claim she isnt sure who the dad is why does she "think" its my boyfriends when it is born how do we get a test i mean if its his brothers it could kinda look like him and i am pregnant now with his baby and we have been together for 9 months it took me that long to get pregnant i just dont believe her baby is his i know it sound rude but she had 2 kids that got taken away so she isnt even ready for another baby....please help and be nice
2006-11-15 02:25:52 · 8 answers · asked by tesnrut 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She sounds like a perfect guest for Maury.
2006-11-15 02:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by LorraineBates 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes there is a test that can be done once the baby is born. You can inquire at the hospital where you can go for this to be done.
Though you should have a open mind in case things turned out that your boyfriend could be the baby's father. Depends on how many months she is in her pregnancy she could think about to see who she was with around that time, and not accusing the wrong people. I think if she is unsure who it is, she should go about it saying to those who could be involved "I wanted to tell you that I am pregnant, but I am unsure who's the baby's father is. Once I have the baby would to have a test done to see if your the baby father"
This is what I would do, and I totally see where your coming from. Its hard to think that your boyfriend could be this other girls fathers baby. It good to have a open mind just in case, because if he is, I hope he takes responsibility.
Good Luck :)
2006-11-15 02:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this girl sounds a bit messed up in the head.
One way of attempting to resolve whos baby it is is to ask your boyfriend and his brother if they know what dates they slept with her, and find out her expected due date. If she was sleeping with them at the same time, that method won't work.
You could always try meeting up (the four of you) and asking her outright what the hell she thinks she is playing at.
If this girl has already had two children taken off her it appears she is not ready to be a mother again, and it sounds to me like she just wants to mess someones elses life up because hers is such a mess.
But one thing you need to be careful of is not stressing about it too much. I know its very difficult but its bad for your unborn baby.
Also, this woman wont get a single penny from your boyfriend unless she can prove it is his child. A DNA test may be a simple aanswer when the baby is born, although these tend to be quite expensive.
Alternatively, you could just apply to Jerry Springer and have one done for free there!!
Only joking! I hope everything works out for you hunny.
Take Care
2006-11-15 02:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tried for 9 months to get pregnant by some guy your dating who has a girl claiming to be carrying his other child....
If she's claiming him as the father he can contest it before being named father, and definitely at the child support hearings. The state will often cover the cost of DNA testing before child support cases are completed.
2006-11-15 02:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck dear, with everything you do in your life. With that said. The only thing that should be taking up space in you head, is your baby and you. Don't let her in, that what she wants. and the only thing she has left. Sounds to me like games are being played,all around. And its always the innocent little baby's that pay the price.
2006-11-15 02:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffery's granny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A DNA test from your boyfriend compared to her baby's DNA will solve the problem. But be forewarned, she may be right.
2006-11-15 02:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...i went threw the same thing...it probably is his baby and he will do anything to tell you that its not...when her baby is born get a dna test...that will solve EVERYTHING! good luck
2006-11-15 02:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kendra T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do women do that! have babies when they shouldnt makes me so mad and srry for the babies! i dont know how to do a test sorry.
2006-11-15 02:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by klumzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋