and we are more than friends, like we kiss, it looks like we like each other, hes older than me im 18 hes 25, do you think i should tell him the way i feel?, because i dont want him to feel presured or anything, or do you think i should ask him if he wants to be my bf? a friend told me to wait forhim to tell because hes older what do you think? Thank you
2006-11-15 02:25:36 · 4 answers · asked by sabin_f5 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that you should wait and see what happens. Give him subtle hints that you care for him. Don't tell anything. He might be homosexual but he is still a man. Men tend to play you when you tell them how you feel when they do not feel the same way. They use that to make you do things you will not usually do. You could also scare him away. Just take things slow hun.
2006-11-15 02:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would think that being gay would make guys more like girls when it comes to relationships, but they anent. You have to be careful not to be too clingy right away and come out with true feelings until you are both absolutely sure you feel that way. It's all a big game of risk! Putting yourself out there is the best thing to do. it's aways better to come out with what you feel. You just have to play it by ear and use your discretion. Isn't it crazy?!!
2006-11-15 11:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a couple more weeks. It takes about 6 weeks of dating to get past the initial bloom to wear off and get to some reality. If in two weeks you feel the same way, then tell him if he hasn't already. Good luck!
2006-11-15 10:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be careful, find out what he is looking for first, he may not be looking for something serious. once you find out where he stands then you can decide wheter to open up about how you feel
2006-11-15 10:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋