and to wash your hands after using toilet.... would you do that? Why would you continue to not wash your hands or shower at least 5-6 times a week? (not all guys are like this... just curious)
2006-11-15 02:10:58 · 12 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This guy has a problem. Can you uncover what his resistance to showering and washing is? If so, maybe you can address whatever is causing the resistance, maybe he grew up in a family where that kind of cleanliness was not valued. Ask him what it would take for him to change.
Of course it's possible that he is doing this because he is angry or to distance himself from you, or to make himself unattractive to you.
If you think that's possible then I'd ask him why he has that goal.
2006-11-15 02:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My BF used to work outdoors and then he'd come in and do a really quick rinse off in the shower and still have BO. I finally had to tell him to start taking decent showers and get clean. At first he didn't appreciate it and insisted he didn't have BO. He'd step out of the shower after doing one of his rinse offs and present himself for a quick sniff and then, usually, I'd have to send him back in. It irritated him, but eventually, he got over it and started taking longer showers. Now he enjoys them and there's no more issue with BO. He's never had a problem with bathroom hygiene.
2006-11-15 02:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rob B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have not had that problem with my fiancee. I have a rep for always being fresh and clean. However to get back to your question, if my fiancee wanted me to do that I would do it. As for those that do not take pride in good hygeine, there has to be something wrong with your head. You have to be clean all the time even for your women.
2006-11-15 02:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe that people dont shower at least once a day, find it awful think of all the crap you must pick up in day to day life......
wouldnt be happy about that...
then apart from that you smell, dont people want there partners to think they are still attractive.....
x
2006-11-15 02:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by tommy boy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, gross not washing your hands
second, if your man needs some insentive to take showers, get in there with him and wash him
2006-11-15 02:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck'n Da Deuce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause she loves you enough to tell you that you stink and need to bathe more.So just get started.Be happy you have someone that cares enough to tell you the truth.
2006-11-15 02:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I normally take bath every day... if my partner wishes... there is nothing wrong in doing so... but u have pay little bit more water bills... lol
2006-11-15 02:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Showering together is fun.
2006-11-15 02:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like another woman who wants to change the man instead of loving him for who he is. If it is too much to handle....get out! , you cant change others...just yourself. Leave him if he doesnt care enough about you to clean himself :)
2006-11-15 02:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by voiceofreason 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some men are just pigs, and pigs stink
2006-11-15 02:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋