I know you're all different
So what does it for you
2006-11-15 02:05:57 · 31 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a cute smile,a cute peachy,an experianced manhood,an open mind but eyes for me only,honesty,nutty sense of humour+the ability to give me big fat squishy bears hugs whenever possible
2006-11-15 02:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should be yourself, because if you're not and you change for her, when you're not happy, she wont be either after time.
But if all is well in the relationship and both of you accept each other as you are UNCONDITIONALLY then you can work on this...
Respect is my biggest thing. Have enough respect for me and my feelings to listen to me even when I'm being unreasonable, and then feel free to point out that while you understand that I'm upset over a certain situation, let's look at this objectively (this is if I'm upset with you, not if I'm mad at my mother or anyone else, then you'll just hack me off lol...)
Respect me enough to know I am a woman and I can get moody and when I am, my needs might change from one day to the next. One day I might need to feel loved and cherished with all the flowers and romance and the next I might need some time alone for a bubble bath and a book.
Respect me enough to tell me I'm beautiful in both mind and body and that you can't wait to be challenged by me both mentally and physically.
oh and the sex... that makes us happy too lol... Just make sure it's not all about you in the bedroom. I don't mind it if every now and then it is, because sometimes I don't really feel like it but I'm respecting you as a man to give you your carnal needs without distress, but you better hook a girl up the majority of the time.
But that's just me...
2006-11-15 02:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the seat down. Take her to dinner at least once a week. Learn to cook. Suprise her with little things (like a note in the pocket). Do NOT try to be perfect. Basically the best way to have a good relationship is to make sure you are BOTH dedicated to making each other happy. Oh, communicate and listen....that's important, too.
2006-11-15 02:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jeniphish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like it when my husband talks to me openly about his feelings, and our problems. Communication helps keep us happier, and closer. We are able to know what things we need to work on in our personality, when we talk about them to each other. If things might be bothering us, it's alot better when we are told about it tactfully. Forgiving each others faults, can help alot. I know that no one is perfect, even my self. Honesty is the best policy.
We spend quality time together, even if it is not to long. I really like it when my husband does things around the house to help. Simple gifts are nice, like a flower once in awhile. Being bought something special for no reason. Even if it is a box of chocolates. If the man says I love you first, women like that. Opening the doors for a women is really sweet. My son always opens the door for me. He gets mad if I don't let him.
He likes to follow his Dads example. Really it all comes down to love. If we truly love some one, show that love. Men should follow God's example of love. He gave up his son Jesus for all of us. That was the greatest expression of love. My husband really does treat me good, and respectful. That makes me happy.
2006-11-15 02:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this stage not much lol, i suppose for me its definitley a good sense of humour and somebody who can make me laugh as i like to laugh alot and keep spirits up, also someone who doesnt play games and is just honest and caring and wants whats best out of life for himself and for me.
obvisously i think there has to be some kind of physical attraction there too.
2006-11-15 02:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The small things matter. Like when you leave for work if she is asleep give her a kiss and tell her you love her. Stuff like that. Sure jewelry is nice but the small things make it better. Things that seem petty to you or not that important are things to most women that really matter.
2006-11-15 02:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 Money
2 sex
3 Honesty
2006-11-15 02:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
Trust
Understanding
Affection
Honesty
Tolerance
Loyalty
I think these things are the basics to any relationship, its important to communicate, important to listen to one another and understand what the other person is really trying to say. romance, affection, hugs, kisses, being there best friend, making each other laugh, being silly with one another, but knowing how serious about each other you are. wanting to spend time with each other, feeling half empty when youre without them and knowing they are missing you just as much. knowing they complete you, being there other half
2006-11-15 07:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO not ever make her suffer! I'm a victim of mental abuse.and i always wanted my bf to treat me with love but he abused mementally and made me believe tht i was a bad person and he pulled as much as he cud, my self esteem.Please, treat woman with sum love and dont play with her feelings.
2006-11-15 02:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anisha81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with her.
Make her feel special, with little things and big things. A little thing could be to pick a daisy from the lawn and give it to her. A big thing could be give up smoking cos she hates it!
Love her and make love with her.
Be honest and trustworthy.
Be good to be with - i.e. dont be bad-tempered or grumpy!
2006-11-15 02:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋